NIRVANA S4:E4

February 10, 2023

Here we are in the Bahamas, where we’ve been for just over a month, in what feels like a world apart from the two plus months of travel to get here. “Where are you headed?” people asked along the way. “The Bahamas,” we replied instinctively, not really knowing much about what that means in reality, just that it’s our destination. We have been all too destination driven, and now we feel like we have “arrived.” For more than the place—the Bahamas—it’s about the experiences unfolding as we follow what’s in front of us moment-by-moment, hour-by-hour, and day-by-day. Needless to say, it’s a very different mode of travel.

Key Biscayne

While this mode feels more low-key and enjoyable than the mode we were in, the passage from Florida required some serious planning. First you need to decide where you’re going to check into customs and immigration. That dictates where you leave from, taking into account the effects of the Gulf Stream pushing you north at 2.5 knots as you sail east. Then you need to wait for the right wind conditions to cross the stream, some 50 miles, depending on how far north it pushes you. And finally, you need to ensure reasonable conditions for crossing the Great Bahama Bank—another 90-some miles—to get to the islands.

And in our case, before all that happened, we had to wait for some important stuff to arrive—a new pump for our head, two new AGM batteries since ours were shot, and two new SIM cards so our phones would work in the Bahamas. This waiting period afforded us some much needed down time in Key Biscayne where we anchored for a week, going ashore most days for a walk in the delightful 400-acre state park—thankfully saved from development by Bill Baggs, editor of the Miami news, in 1967—and taking dips in the ocean along with enjoying the park’s outdoor showers. It also gave us time to take on the installation of our new autopilot, which had been sitting in our aft cabin since North Carolina! Working side-by-side, Will and I installed the pilot together, which was very satisfying as it went swimmingly well, yet we thanked ourselves at every step of the way that we weren’t paying someone to do it as it took us close to two full days! And still, we needed two additional cables that we didn’t have…

Coconut Grove

We lucked out and spent a night on a mooring at the Coconut Grove Sailing Club, which had agreed to accept some of our packages. What a delightful place it was too, with dozens of small racing dinghies, a mooring field full of only sailboats, and hints of how Miami might have been fifty years ago. Everything went like clockwork as we Uber-ed to Home Depot to collect the batteries and dispose of the old ones and on to West Marine for the cables, and then to stock up on what we feared might be our last fresh vegetables. However, late in the day we learned the SIM cards we’d been waiting for had been shipped to Maine (!), so we took yet another Uber to collect them at a local store. By then it was dark, and we still needed to fill up our water tank and motor across Biscayne Bay for an early morning departure, which we did with aplomb.

Great Bahama Bank

On January 5, we left Key Biscayne at 7 am to cross the Gulf Stream with ESE winds at about 8-10 knots. This meant we were able to sail about a third of the way across—the first time sailing in a month!!—until the stream started pushing us north and the winds diminished, at which point we motor sailed to keep on course. Given extremely calm wind and seas, as well as a full moon, we opted for a really long day and motored most of the way across the bank at night, and then anchored. It’s a strange thing to drop anchor in 13’ in the middle of a huge expanse of open water, but other boats had the same idea, and we saw them off in the distance as we motored past, finally stopping at 11:30pm. Waking up to the brilliant aquamarine water over white sand and not a breath of wind was extraordinary! We immediately stripped down and jumped in with a delight that only we will know—the other-worldly beauty, our accomplishment at having traveled 103 miles in 16 hours, and our first night passage!

Chub Cay

Just as the wind picked up, we raised sails and had a delightful five-hour sail to Chub Cay (pronounced “key”), anchored, and set about attempting to finish filling out our online forms, not entirely successfully. Next morning, we motored into the marina, our yellow Quarantine flag flying, and were driven a short distance to a small landing strip they call an airport to check in with customs and immigration, receive our 90-day cruising permit, and pay our $300 for the privilege. Back at the marina, we raised our Bahamas courtesy flag and were officially checked in, happy it went so smoothly. We were told we had to pay a $100 “landing fee” to check in, but it was only another $50 to stay the night, so we decided to splurge. However, when we went inside the resort lobby, we learned it was another $40 each for a membership to their exclusive club (which we were told was cheap for the Bahamas), so we turned on our heels and booked it out of there…

But not before having a delightful conversation with Malcolm, our driver, who it turns out was from Andros, the largest Bahamian island only 30 miles away. He said if we wanted to see “the real Bahamas,” we should go there. And so, because we were so turned off by the exclusivity of the Texas tycoon-owned Chub Cay and because we met the delightful, down-to-earth Malcolm, we hoisted sails once again and headed west for Morgan’s Bluff at the north tip of Andros, having no idea what to expect.

At which point, the shifting of modes from one focused on boat repair and destination planning to one more focused on following where the boat leads us had officially begun! YAY!!!

Morgan’s Bluff

After a delightful four-hour sail across the Tongue of the Ocean where depths get up to 6000’, we anchored in the huge harbor, one of only two anchored boats plus a few rusty wrecks. Rowing ashore to explore, we encountered Gregory and his wife who were preparing for the next day’s gathering in their food stall. We said we’d like to see the island and wondered if they knew someone who might be able to show us around. We assured her we’d be back the next day to try her conch fritters.

Ten minutes later while walking up the hill a car pulled up. It was Michael, their friend, who picked us up and gave us a driving  tour that magically ended at  his wife’s take-out place attached to their home in Nicholls Town. He shared a wealth of information about his native Andros, where he was happy to return after years in Nassau, to serve as head of the labor department. Cynthia served up cracked (fried) lobster, cracked conch, rice and pigeon peas, guava duff, and Kalik beer. Needless to say, after a diet of mostly salad, homemade bread, fish, and vegetables, we were stuffed. Michael then happily drove us back to the harbor. We were incredibly touched by his generosity of spirit.

In the morning I heard the cheerful voices of children coming from the other boat in the harbor, so we hopped in the dinghy and rowed over to say hi. Turns out this family of five has been living aboard in Andros for the past two months, having fled—you’ll never believe—Moldova, which borders Ukraine. Marianna, her American husband, Neil, and their three wonderful daughters ages 5, 8, and 9 live on a 52’ boat that they keep in Florida. Because of the war, they’ll be returning to California until things settle down in their home country. What a delight it was hanging out with this family, especially those three girls who used every handhold as monkeys use branches!

We then hauled out our folding bikes for the first time, rowed them ashore, and took off to explore the nearest settlement, Nicholls Town. There was not much to it except a couple blocks of houses, a few very nondescript stores, and a bar on stilts. We did have a couple of interesting encounters along the way, one with a proselytizing Rastafarian, which raised Will’s heckles, another with a guy who said, “Are you the people on the boat?” Word gets around quick at this end of the island!

Back at the harbor, two stalls were open for business, and the conch fritters and roasted root vegetables were indeed delicious. Even more fun was playing Red Light Green Light and Simon Says with the girls on the beach. I’m so looking forward to having a grandchild, who arrives in April!

Another day of hanging out on the boat saw us dragging anchor for the first time ever. We reset and all was well until after dark when we started dragging again, at which point we motored into the very tiny commercial harbor and tied up to the cement wall, just in front of a sunken boat, once again with great aplomb. Morgan’s Bluff is not your average Bahamian destination with its somewhat run-down looking commercial harbor, several sunken vessels in both the inner and outer harbor, and not much happening most of the time. That said, when you dig a little deeper, we found it to be a delightful place to spend some time.

Kamalame Cay

Next stop was Kamalame Cay, 25 miles down the coast, again not your average Bahamian destination as the anchorage has room for about one boat and there’s nothing there except a “ferry” that shuttles dozens of workers back and forth to the exclusive resort, hidden from the harbor. Once there, we discovered we weren’t far from the Blue Holes National Park, so we loaded our bikes into the dinghy once again and set out in search of a blue hole. What are blue holes, you might ask? They’re underwater caves filled with water, which can be 1000’ deep and are home to prehistoric creatures that can survive without oxygen. Turns out Andros has one of the largest number of these blue holes on the planet, along with the third largest barrier reef in the world! We asked person after person as to where we might find a blue hole within biking distance and following their clues came to a small sign on the side of the road that said, Rainbow Blue Hole. We stashed the bikes and started walking on a narrow trail with signs hanging from various trees marking their species, most of which were unknown to us. After a half a mile or so, we came to what looked like a small pond, stripped down, and went for a refreshing dip! We saw no prehistoric creatures however. Apparently, the tiny fish will nibble the callouses from your feet if you hang out in the water, but we didn’t know that yet.

On the bike ride back, we stopped at a hardware store and two very small and not well-stocked grocery stores, chatting with the owners to learn about life on Andros. There’s not much to buy except when the mail boat comes with supplies once a week, and what’s there is very expensive. No wonder rice and beans are a staple here. Many locals here make their living working at Kamalame Cay resort, or they leave, like Malcolm did, and go to work on another island, most commonly in Nassau, the big city on Providence Island. But for those who’ve stayed or come back, there’s a love of place and people that is nothing short of devoted.

Fresh Creek

Next stop was Fresh Creek, once again not your typical Bahamian cruiser’s destination as the anchorage is poor, there’s only room for a couple of boats, and the marina has been closed since Hurricane Matthew in 2016, although it is reopening this year. What is there is a commercial dock where supply boats come twice a week, a government dock where you can tie up for $5.20 per night, and a cadre of colorful and generous people who are delighted to share who they are and what they know. We stayed three days and loved it!

Our first encounter was with David Moxie, a German-speaking, published poet who shared his manuscript in exchange for a beer, which he left with us to read. Returning it several days later, I followed the breadcrumbs to his brother’s compound overlooking the ocean. He was squarely middle class, working part-time as a contractor at AUTEC, a US military base that conducts “research” and testing of “maritime warfare” readiness in the deep ocean off Andros. Even here we have a military presence!

We next asked the lovely woman in the pink harbor office where we might find some conch salad. Next thing you know, the preacher, who was engaged in a rousing game of dominos on the dock, said he’d be happy to make us some in an hour or so. Two hours later, we walked up to his shack and watched him skillfully extract the live conch from its shell and create a delicious fresh salad with green tomatoes, onions, and citrus. Finally, a cracked conch that wasn’t fried!

Getting the bikes ashore here was easy at the government dock, so the next day we had a nice ride to a public beach which we had to ourselves where I had a chance to dance on the beach and Will caught sight of a turtle swimming in close. We stopped at a roadside stand and chatted with another Bahamian who had returned home after years as a taxi driver in Nassau, now making his living selling fresh coconut and other vegetables. Nearby was the Small Hope Bay Lodge, a dive resort that was started by an American in 1960, now being run by his son and grandson, which still had the feel of the old Bahamas. For fun, they feed the sharks with “fish popsicles” so divers can watch the feeding frenzy.

We heard that the Mennonite farmers have a farm stand on Friday mornings at 8:00 am where all the locals go for vegetables and fresh eggs, but get there early or they run out. We were there at 7:15, helped him and his young daughter set up when they arrived, and then bought an abundance of fantastic vegetables for a mere $40. Many Mennonite families moved to the island in the70s and have been there ever since, integrating with the native Bahamians, for the most part…

Our next stop was the Adrosia Batik Factory, which was started in the 70s by the same guy who started the diving lodge and is now run by a group of local women. We had a long chat with Shanika, who it turns out had been raised Mennonite when her mother converted twenty years prior, until what she described as a racist preacher came to the island and basically forced all the Bahamians out of their church! Growing up, she had been best friends with David, the farmer’s daughter, David having missed becoming preacher by one vote. While said preacher has since been removed from the position, those who left the church have not returned. It was a sad story indeed from this otherwise very hospitable place.

The high winds and seas having died down, it was time to cross the Tongue of the Ocean once again and head to the Exumas after an unexpectedly delightful week on Andros.

The Exumas

The Exumas are a chain of over 365 islands that stretch 130 miles north to south and home to the Exuma National Land and Sea Park, consisting of dozens of uninhabited, protected cays that are a destination for many cruisers. The park provides inexpensive moorings at many of the islands, with Park Headquarters in Warderick Wells in the middle of the chain.

It’s what you imagine the Bahamas to be—calm, white sandy beaches on the shallow bank side, rugged crashing beaches on the deeper sound side, and a variety of marine wildlife. Although not in abundance, we’ve seen turtles swimming in the mangroves, huge rays buried under the sand on shallow beaches, and colorful tropical fish and coral while snorkeling. We’ve enjoyed some great hikes on the rocky shores and delightful sailing to get from one island to the next. We’ve also stopped at a few islands outside the park that have “settlements” where we’ve enjoyed some local fare and provisioned in the very expensive grocery stores—$14 for a package of romaine, $8 for a quart of cottage cheese, $10 for a bunch of broccoli, $8 for a dozen eggs, etc. We wonder how the Bahamians survive with these prices. While many are earning a very good living working at all the high-class resorts, many are not and appear somewhat impoverished. That said, everyone we’ve met seems more than content and has been beyond friendly.

With so many islands to explore, we enjoyed sailing short distances in mostly favorable winds followed recommendations and discovered some on our own, stopping at some of the highlights.

Highbourne Cay where we unknowingly went ashore and got kicked off the private beach, so we moved 3 miles south to Long Cay with its gorgeous inland lagoon where we harvested conch in 2′ of water and bushwhacked our way to a stunning rocky path.

Shrouds Cay with its 1.5 mile inland mangrove creek cutting across the island, where we saw several 3’  turtles at the entrance and which we rowed most of the way in and back, catching a tow for the last leg.

The row inspired this poem:

Azure ribbon
divides the land.
Mangrove roots
connected
entangled
reflected
submerged and exposed
in a twice daily dance.
The two of us
floating in between
following the current.

Warderick Wells with its long hiking paths up and down the island, stunning vistas, park HQ, and our first cruiser’s happy hour social gathering.

O’Brien Cay where we snorkeled in “the aquarium” and saw some super cool fish and coral. Staniel Cay where we tanked up and did some provisioning, including a quart of chocolate ice cream for lunch and then on to Blackpoint settlement on Great Guana Cay where we scored some fresh grouper and snapper from a fisherman on the dock and rode out some high winds with dozens of other boats.

Little Farmer’s Cay, a super low-key island owned for generations by a handful of local families so thankfully no grand-scale development will happen. We hung out for an hour in Little Harbor while Dino made us conch salad, which involved picking up the conch from his stash in the harbor, waiting while he took some people snorkeling with the turtles, going to a local shop to buy the necessary ingredients, and assisting him by walking over to his restaurant to bring back salt, pepper, and a knife. We also had a long chat with an old timer who has been building and racing Bahamian sloops his whole life and a local wood carver who receives his artistic gift from God.

Next it was time to make tracks toward George Town where cousin Joanna was due to arrive in a couple of days for a visit.

George Town and Stocking Island

After a 45-mile sail, we arrived in Elizabeth Harbor, where we were greeted by over 300 boats anchored off Stocking Island, the barrier island providing excellent shelter from the prevailing winds and seas. When the first conch horn sounded to signal sundown and all the anchor lights went on, it literally felt like New York City with masts in all directions—quite a contrast from the quiet anchorages we’ve been experiencing. This harbor is The Destination for many cruising boats in the Bahamas, many of whom stay here for the whole winter. And why not? It’s like adult summer camp with endless opportunities for socializing, volleyball, playing music, and meeting up with other sailors at Chat ‘n Chill.

Each morning at 8AM, Mark on Puff gets on channel 72 and gives the weather, asks for new boat arrivals, asks if anyone needs information about anything, and gives a chance for people to buy and sell stuff that’s laying around their boats. So far, we’ve scored a ham radio, wifi booster antenna, and a can of red paint. We also helped some Canadians order some stuff online for their broken windlass since apparently American companies make it hard for Canadians to do so. To thank us, these folks took us in their fancy rubber dinghy the 1.5 miles across the harbor in what turned out to be a very wet ride, nonetheless; we took the water taxi back. In fact, we’ve encountered many of the Canadians we’d met along the way, chatted up some Mainers at a social gathering, complete with Whoopie pies, and connected with other sailors we know with one-degree of separation. I also organized a couple of beach dances which I’ve been sorely missing. All in all, it’s a pretty cool place that can definitely suck you in when you’re not watching.

Lee Stocking Cay

After a few days in the harbor, we did some more provisioning and then set out 30 miles back up the chain to Lee Stocking Cay, a beautiful anchorage and island where we did some snorkeling, swimming, and walking the dramatic island paths. It was fun having another person on board to share our world, inspire a change of focus, and get us in the water to do more snorkeling, which we all enjoyed.

We dropped Joanna off at Emerald Bay Marina, where we were catapulted into another world as we had a farewell meal at a poolside resort—major culture shock! After a couple of nights at the marina where we enjoyed long showers, did some laundry, and I sat in rocking chair on land for hours on end, we agreed it was time to move on, so we headed back to George Town to ride out a long stretch of high winds and seas in the sheltered harbor.

* * *

So here we are again, chatting and chilling, and having some down time from all that this life entails—deciding where to go next, looking at the weather, route planning, and being both prepared for and open to all that you can’t predict, which is pretty much everything. For Will, it’s all an adventure that he’s happy to engage in all of the time. For me, I feel a sense of adventure, curiosity, enthusiasm, exhaustion, and trepidation, in different measure, depending on what the day brings. This requires a periodic recharging of my internal batteries as they become depleted over time with all the physical, mental, and emotional demands on my system. Luckily, Will is very sensitive, responsive, and accommodating as we shift, balance, and dance together on the rolling seas with Nirvana.

One thing we agree on: there’s a lot to love about the Bahamas! It’s immensely beautiful—the weather and water—the constant breezes dissipate the heat, and the people are super friendly. That said, it’s always painful to see how wealth and development affect a place like this with so much natural beauty. With the economy based on tourism and off-shore banking for what appears to be largely uber-rich Americans, it’s a double-edged sword that spurs more and more development that can seriously change a place, and has. As just one example, the uninhabited island of Little San Salvador was purchased 26 years ago by a cruise ship corporation that has developed 50 acres of what was a pristine landscape, disgorging tens of thousands of people each year. It’s pretty clear that the number of large and small boats visiting these islands has killed much of the coral, so we’re grateful for the protected areas. But we too are part of the problem, the thousands of people on boats who flood these waters each year. I’m sure the Bahamians would have a lot to say on the matter as their standard of living has increased over the decades, but we are left wondering whether the Bahamians need all the economic security our development dollars bring or were they better off 50 years ago before tourism ruled the day. But these are bigger questions for another day.

NIRVANA S4:E3

December 24, 2022

What a long, strange trip it’s been! We have just spent 65 days traveling 1720 nautical miles through 13 states from South Portland, Maine to Miami, Florida, not including the six weeks we spend in Rhode Island working on the boat in preparation for the trip. In all honesty, nothing could have prepared us for this trip. Which is not to say we were unprepared; we had the requisite guide books, navigation equipment, boat gear, and very importantly, food larder. We understood that there would be passages off the coast and inland on the Intracoastal Waterway (ICW). While I’ve traveled extensively on the West Coast, Europe, the Adriatic, and the Caribbean, much of it on a sailboat, I’ve spent almost no time of substance south of New England on the East Coast. And I’ve never sailed coastwise outside of Maine, nor spent any time making tracks in a boat on one of the largest connected bodies of water in the world, the ICW; neither has Will.

It’s been eye-opening, fascinating, amazing, challenging, disheartening, scary, and yes, fun too, although fun has not been the operative word in my experience. “Has it been fun for you?” I asked Will. “Yes, I’ve enjoyed most of it, with the exception of all the motoring we’ve done on the ICW.” Tallying it up, we’ve spent 23 days motoring on the ICW, 21 days sailing on the outside, and 21 days mostly at anchor, with a handful of days at mostly free docks or at a marina. That’s a pretty healthy balance, although we’ve spent many more days motoring that we’d hoped and, in retrospect, we now agree we should have spent more days at anchor, relaxing.

Now that we’ve “arrived” at the end of this major leg before we “jump across” to the Bahamas, it feels incredibly satisfying that we’ve made it this far. At the same time, we’re taking some much-needed time for rest and relaxation, as well as some deep reflection—about our country, our boat, our journey, and each other.

Miami

Our Country

America was built on the backs of slaves. As one immediate example, we traveled on canals that were hand dug by slaves. Having grown up in New England, I’ve had very little exposure to the South and the history of our country. After the slaughter of the Native Americans when the Europeans first arrived, the worst scar on our country is surely slavery and its ongoing repercussions. We have been reading Heather Cox Richardson, a political blogger pop-star of the liberal persuasion, who happens to live in Round Pond, Maine where I used to keep my boat. It’s where we get our news—as much as we can tolerate. She is a genius about reflecting on our political, economic, and social state of affairs with an historical lens, particularly as it relates to the Civil War. (You can sign up for her daily “Letter from an American” here.) While the Civil War was “won” by the North, the endemic injustice that’s baked into our institutions—and now even into our laws—prevails, and we’re still fighting over what was never fully resolved by that very uncivil war.

This trip took us to Elizabeth City, Belhaven, and Oriental, NC on the ICW; Charleston, NC, where the Civil War started; Savannah, GA, which was spared when captured by the Union army, leaving the beautiful architecture and landscape in tact; Fenwick Island, SC, where freed slaves created a thriving community post-Civil War; Beaufort, SC, which we learned was a model for Reconstruction after the war; St Augustine, FL where we met up with Will’s 96-year-old mother; New Smyrna where we met up with a friend and saw a rocket launch from Cape Canaveral; and West Palm Beach, FL where we stayed a few nights at Will’s brother’s poolside cabana and king-sized bed, a most welcome break from boat life.

Elizabeth City, Belhaven, and Oriental, NC

Charleston, NC

Savannah, GA

Fenwick Island, SC

Beaufort, SC

St. Augustine, New Smyrna, and West Palm Beach, FL

While the South is seemingly integrated now, we all know that our country is still racially charged and divided along so many different lines. Having grown up in the South, Will observes that while it might have more overt racism, many blacks and whites at least know the others’ families, whereas in the North, very little exchange seems to occur. As for our experience, some of the friendliest people we’ve met on this trip are casual encounters with people of color, whether at the grocery store, post office, or fishing pier.

And speaking of eye-opening, the over-the-top presence of the military as we’ve moved south has been beyond astonishing. In Norfolk, VA, we passed the largest Naval base in the world; in Sunny Point, NC, we passed the largest ocean terminal for military munitions in the country; and just before Cumberland Island, GA, we passed the Kings Bay Naval Submarine Base, the largest nuclear submarine base in the world. And that says nothing of the military-industrial complex that lurks at every port and is hidden behind Restricted Zones on the chart. I found it excruciatingly difficult to observe, but it is our reality.

Warships off Jacksonville, FL doing “exercises”

We’ve also seen some of the most overt displays of wealth ever as we passed house after house along the ICW, with lifts to hold motor boats out of the water so as not to get them dirty. The further south we traveled, the larger the houses and yachts have become to the point of being mind-numbing. When personal wealth is the yardstick upon which so much of this country is based, it means “development” rules the day, leaving nature to the tree-huggers who have to fight battles with the behemoths to preserve what’s left.

One such fighter is our friend Sidney VanZant who fifty years ago founded the Groton Open Space Association in Connecticut, which has preserved hundreds of acres of land, the first of which we had the good fortune to visit at the very beginning of our trip south. Another is Carol Ruckdeschel, a self-taught biologist/activist now in her 80s, who has almost single-handedly been responsible for preserving much of Cumberland Island, GA, where she lives off the land and wild horses roam freely amidst the ruins of mansions built by the wealthy in the mid-1800s. We’ve been reading her fascinating story Untamed: The Wildest Woman in America and The Fight for Cumberland Island. And right next door on Jekyll Island is an almost Disneyland display of wealthy Americana that we found hard to take.

Cumberland Island and Jekyll Island, GA

  • The sweet marina at Jekyll Island

On the positive side, we’ve observed some magnificent wildlife both “inside” on the ICW and “outside” off the coast, including a whale, porpoise, dolphin, manatees, armadillos, pelicans, ibis, and many other species of birds. While most of the waterfront is residential, there have been stretches that are beautifully pristine, in particular the marshlands of South Carolina and Georgia, no doubt because this land cannot be developed. And as we’ve traveled south, the temperature has warmed while the breezes over the water keep it from getting too hot, so we’re enjoying much more time in the cockpit, with few insects to send us inside at night.

So after this very looonnnggg leg of our journey, we are somewhat disheartened by the onslaught of humanity and are longing for nature.

Here are some of Will’s photographic impressions from this leg of the trip.

Our Boat

Our Freedom 36 is incredibly well built and is listed as one of the top 100 best production sailboats for its overall construction. This is good. Despite having upgraded much of the equipment on the boat, under the careful guidance of a world-class Freedom expert, you can’t upgrade everything, and so things break, and they did, starting on our first day out of Rhode Island. And they continued to break on our way down the coast to Norfolk, and beyond.

Some of it was old equipment: we chose not to upgrade our 34-year-old forestay, for example, and so it nearly broke the first day out on rough seas. Some of it was a big surprise: our older chart plotter that worked fine in Maine ran out of charts once we hit Long Island Sound. Some of it was bad luck: we pushed our sailmaker to deliver our sails while I was in Portland in October, resulting in less-than-robust batten receptacles and reinforcements. Some of it turned out to be our lack of understanding: we broke our boom vang not once but twice because we were pulling it too tight when it’s really just there to hold up the boom (who knew?). And on and on and on…

I say, “Damn it, why are so many things breaking? It’s all too daunting!”

Will says, “A boat is a mechanical object. Things break. We can fix them.”

And so we fix things, little by little, accumulating replacement parts in our ever-growing “project box,” which sits in the aft cabin, aka “garage,” waiting for time and motivation to install them. Meanwhile, our older autopilot has served us well enough while motoring on the ICW until we upgrade to the newer model and synch it up with our chart plotter. Our refurbished water maker is back from the manufacturer and ready to install. We’ve installed a “soft vang” while our new boom vang collar is being manufactured and shipped to us in Miami. And I have a glass of wine to calm my nerves while Will drills holes in the deck to install a pad eye so our jack lines don’t chafe.

My growth edge is coming to accept that “fixing stuff” goes along with the watery territory when you live on a boat and, more importantly, none of it is a catastrophe. Will’s growth edge is coming to accept a side of me that he hasn’t seen much before this trip and not fear that I’m going to flee the boat as a result. It’s a work in progress…

Our Journey

There are a number of ways to get from New England to the Bahamas on a sailboat. Starting in Norfolk, you can motor on the ICW all the way down to Florida. You can sail within a few miles of shore, passing in and out of inlets each day to avoid sailing at night. You can do 1 – 3 day hops offshore between major inlets to put in some serious miles and avoid motoring inside. Or you can sail offshore all the way, stopping in Bermuda on the way.

While each have their advantages, they each also have their challenges. Going outside means you get to sail, but it also means you typically have more wind and rougher seas and you have to go in and out of inlets, which can be hairy. Motoring on the ICW is the safest and most direct way to travel, but a) you’re not sailing, b) it can get pretty boring, and c) especially in Florida, there are a lot of opening bridges you have to contend with.

As this is our first time, we’ve been learning what works for us. We’ve done a combination of day hopping off the coast when the conditions have been favorable and motoring the ICW when they have not. We did most of our sailing outside in the first half of the trip and most of our motoring on the ICW in the second half due to extreme waves caused by a huge system in the mid-Atlantic.

Sailing at night or offshore is not something we’ve done yet and involves a whole other level of preparation and psyching up for. After our experience coming down, I imagine we’ll do longer hops offshore when the conditions allow for it, which will likely require bringing on another crew member. (Let us know if you’re interested in the position!)

Also, as we got a late start from New England, we were pushing much of the way down the coast from Rhode Island in order to stay ahead of the cold, with many 50-60 mile days. It turns out it was reasonably warm, the wind was largely favorable from behind, and we seemed to be up to the challenge. Somewhere around North Carolina, however, the pushing caught up with us and we realized we needed to slow our pace. There were more 20- and 30-mile days where we slept in and had time after we arrived to relax or go ashore. We spent time in some of the more interesting cities like Charleston and Savannah. There were some breaks where we visited with Will’s mom in St. Augustine, his brother in West Palm Beach, and a friend in New Smyrna. Mostly we anchored, but we have stopped at the occasional marina, which is always a treat for a real shower and laundry. And much to a sailor’s delight, we’ve stayed at a number of free docks in North Carolina and West Palm Beach.

One thing we’ve come to recognize is the importance of going ashore and doing something completely un-boat-related to change things up. These have been some of the most interesting and fun days of the trip.

Each Other

Will and I make a good team. I like to be creative in my cooking, and Will is an enthusiastic recipient and is happy to clean up after meals. We take turns making breakfast and our daily salad for lunch. I have a head for technology so have taken on most of our electronic route planning. Will can take on mechanical things without feeling daunted so has gotten his hands dirty more times than I can count. As a former technical writer, I like to document things so am the keeper of the logbook and blog. Will enthusiastically spots dolphins, birds, and other wildlife with the eye of a child. I usually steer us in and out of inlets, on and off of anchors, and onto and off of docks. Will takes the helm when my arms and nervous system can’t take the wild seas, raises and drops the sails, drops and hauls the anchor, and hops on and off the boat with dock lines. And we each take our turn at manipulating the autopilot on the long legs of the ICW while the drone of the engine largely prevents conversation.

I like to organize things so have created most of our storage systems aboard our tiny craft and help Will find things when he can’t. Will appreciates my organizational talents and is learning the benefits of keeping a tidy ship. I am an emotional barometer for much of our experience. Will appreciates that “shit happens” and usually finds a silver lining in what initially looks like a dark cloud. Given our different approaches to living aboard and having this kind of adventure together, we both allow each other to be ourselves and influence each other in subtle ways, which is as it should be in any good relationship.

And so, the end is now once again the beginning as we prepare for and anticipate what our cruising friends have called “the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow”: The Bahamas!

Nirvana S4:E2

(This epic poem is inspired by The Walrus and the Carpenter by Lewis Carroll and our last couple weeks aboard as we make our way south through North Carolina and South Carolina.)

The Sailor and Her Mate

The sun was shining on the sea
shining with all its might.
It did its very best to make
the Sailor feel delight,
and this was hard because she felt
somewhat of a fright.

The sea was wet as wet could be.
The sails were like a drum.
The boat it surfed just like a bird
On a near broad reach and run,
Threatening with every swell
To gybe the boom for fun.

The wind was blowing mighty fierce.
The seas were close behind.
You had to grip the wheel so tight
To keep from going wide.
The main was full, no reefs were set.
There were no reefs to tie.

She looked at him and he to her
And called on her reserves.
She closed her eyes and breathed some breaths
To calm her frazzled nerves.
He frolicked in the following seas,
Surfing in gentle curves.

“We should have reefed before we left,”
They rousingly concurred.
“Lesson learned for next time then.”
And not another word.
Yet brewing just beneath her skin
A fear as yet unheard.

“O Courage come and be with me,”
She spoke out loud to him.
“I do not want this sail to feel
So treacherous and grim.”
“It’s how it is, my love,”
He said, sporting a kindly grin.

The day it passed, the next arose
And off they set again,
An early morn, the offshore route
With wind behind, no rain.
“The seas are readily in hand,”
His confident refrain.

She fixed some lunch on the gimbled stove.
He relished in its taste.
She smiled at him with wheel in hand.
He looked her in the face.
The fear she felt the day before
Was almost all erased.

Approaching Charleston Harbor then,
The inlet close at hand,
He dodged a fishing boat ahead
Then fixed his course for land.
A huge container ship cruised by,
Not something he had planned.

He passed too close, the waves were rough,
Causing the boat to quake.
She looked on deck, the vang had snapped.
It was the second break.
Although he had replaced it well,
It could not take the wake.

They faced the wind and dropped the sails
Right outside the jetty.
Yet just a hundred yards ahead
The sea was calm and steady.
“Timing,” he said “is everything.”
But the break was done already.

He felt himself responsible and uttered this out loud.
He rowed ashore for penance then.
Her hot, wet tears they flowed,
Wondering inside if she was
Sufficiently endowed.

“The time has come,” the Sailor said “to talk of many things.
Of tides and winds and seas and swell,
And whether boats have wings.
Why she despairs when he delights
No matter what life brings.”

A sailor is a salty dog who’s out there for the pleasure.
Yet what brings joy to one man’s heart
Appears in different measure.
Enjoying the experience, it seems,
Depends a lot on weather.

And whether one can stretch one’s legs
And spend some time on land
To balance out the vagaries
Which sailors know first-hand.
To find a safe harbor where
One’s senses can expand.

For life aboard a boat, you see
Is not a life for all.
The ground beneath your feet, it moves.
The quarters are quite small,
And danger lurks around each bend:
A cosmic free-for-all.

Like when the anchor’s set at night
You watch it for a spell
To see if you are holding fast
Or drifting with the swell.
And if there’s no hot water left
You often frankly smell.

The bunk converges at the feet.
The head demands attention.
The windows drip, the cabin’s heat
Requires a minor intervention.
And each piece of gear you meet
Is stowed with great intention.

But when you cozy down at night
All safely below decks,
And brownies in the oven make
Boat life not so complex,
And sunsets in the cockpit have
Their magical effects,

It’s then that living on a boat
Becomes a grand parade.
The cockpit opens up the world
With every anchor weighed,
Horizon stretching all around.
No, then she’s not afraid.

You plot a course and follow true
As much as you are able,
Until the universe decides it’s time
To challenge all that’s stable,
Precisely when no compass course
Can help you to enable

The inner calm when shifting winds
Alert you to your senses.
When what you do and who you are
Become your best defenses.
To trust yourself above all else,
Accept all consequences.

“Let’s slow things down,” they both agreed
“Not like we’ve done to date.”
For both of them were out of breath
And neither of them late.
The morning of departure came
And they were struck by fate:
A passing boat in predawn dark
Collided, but did not wait.

“Sometimes this life is truly tough
And frankly isn’t fun.”
He looked at her with knowing eyes
But answer came there none,
For with each passing day ahead
She’d relished every one.

You can follow our travels on Instagram as well at natasha.salvo

NIRVANA S4:E1

November 10, 2022

Season 4 of sv NIRVANA has officially, and very much in earnest, begun! I’m writing from Elizabeth City, NC, where we’ve been since Sunday, awaiting the passing of Tropical Cyclone Nicole. After two days of motoring on the Intracoastal Waterway (ICW) from Norfolk, VA on the Great Dismal Swamp canal and Pasquotank River, we were welcomed by Keith of Maritime Ministries, whose local ministry is to support sailors here in Elizabeth City with free dockage, hot showers, and local transportation. With their fleet of boats, they also offer support around the world to those in need via the ocean.

We’re currently holed up with four French Canadian boats whom we first encountered in “the swamp.” So in this most welcome down time, we have time to write a blog and catch up with a whole lot of not much after a whole lot that’s happened since we left RI on October 20, almost three weeks ago. This was after what turned out to be six weeks at Warren River Boatworks upgrading and repairing the boat, which was way more time than we expected, but it meant we got way more done than we expected as well. Despite the late start, we are well on our way south.

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To sum up the last period of time, all I can say is it has been an ongoing experience of surrender to the abundance—giving a whole new meaning to the sentiment from any number of perspectives. Let me elaborate.

Steadfastness

We were six weeks in Warren, working on boat projects nearly every day, often alongside Paul or Vinny, his helper, or with their guidance. One of our projects was to replace the fixed ports with tempered glass so we could actually see outside. Since they don’t make replacement ports that fit our boat, this involved removing the ports from the boat, removing the glass and cleaning the aluminum frames, then rebedding the new glass into the frames with this super goopy black gasket material, and then replacing the ports into the boat. This was a very time-consuming project—and there were four of them—so we must have spent more than a week from start to finish. Will and I worked side-by-side, for the most part, except when the acetone spaced me out too much and I had to get some air. There were many difficulties along the way, not the least of which was the rain that happened when the ports were out and the covers we put up leaked or fell off so rain was alternatingly dripping and pouring in. This was a low point for me, for sure, but in the end, we are very pleased that we can see out the windows and that we did most of the work ourselves, thereby saving us a boatload of money. And there were plenty of other projects as well…

Surrender to steadfastness and experience abundance!

One of the big projects was removing the mast so we could replace the wires, lights, and halyards, plus install a new electronic wind instrument that tells the wind speed and direction from the display in the cockpit. Paul asked us to give the inside of the mast a wash before he ran the new halyards. I ran a hose through and oddly, the water didn’t seem to drain. Upon further inspection with my camera, we discovered a huge hard yellow dam about 2/3 of the way up the mast! Paul, the expert, had the explanation. Instead of a single carbon fiber mast like later boats, our boat’s mast had two seams, which were held together with epoxy. Apparently, in our case, the epoxy had spilled out in such a way as to reduce the hole inside the mast by more than half! While this is how the mast had always been, Paul suggested that we try to remove it, but how? We got a long steel rod and rammed it repeatedly to try to break apart the epoxy and make a bigger hole. After hours of this over several days, we might have broken off a few small chunks, so it was largely an exercise in futility. When we finally got a date and time to get the mast put back in, a rainstorm was looming, but we pushed to get it in just before it poured. The next day, we learned that the supports holding the travel lift that the boatyard uses to haul boats had collapsed under its weight causing the lift to fall over! Had we waited a day, it could have happened when they were stepping our mast. We feel supremely lucky that our steadfastness paid off once again—and that no one was hurt.

The ongoing transformation of the boat from “work project”—aka, chaotic mess with everything torn apart and spread out all over the place—to “home” was an ongoing challenge for this organized person whose environment is so important to her overall mood. In our steadfastness to use this unique opportunity to get as much done as we could while we had the use of Paul’s shop and expertise, I have been learning to live with chaos for longer periods of time without going (too) crazy, and Will has been learning the benefits of putting things away at the end of the day, even when he’s “in the middle.” This exchange has been abundantly beneficial for us both!

Responsiveness

A big part of sailing is responding to what arises in the moment, whether it’s a wave surging from behind, a gust of wind from a new direction, or a dark cloud looming in the distance. This is part of what makes sailing such a great exercise of being in the present, something Will and I wholeheartedly live as much as possible.

Responsiveness also includes meeting “issues” that arise on the boat, ideally with the same kind of equanimity that you meet a wind shift, without judgement, blame, or catastrophizing, which is sometimes easier said than done. Will seems to be a master of the non-emotional response when issues arise; I am still learning the fine art of responsiveness when issues arise, namely, the simple, straightforward ability to respond. With each issue that presents itself—and there have been many—I’m finding my nervous system has calmed considerably. One key is recognizing things for what they are and not holding expectations too tightly. So despite the six weeks of boat work, we realize now that we’ve been on our shakedown cruise!

The first day out from Warren we spent motoring into heavy wind and seas because the wind was too close to sail. Rounding Point Judith, we decided to raise the jib to see if we could at least motor sail in the direction we wanted to go, but no luck. As Will went up on deck to drop the jib, he discovered that the forestay was almost entirely frayed through! This was one of the few things we decided not to upgrade in our major overhaul as it hadn’t caused us any trouble to date. Well, this 34-year-old headstay, whose only function is to hold up the jib and not the mast like on most boats, decided that today was the day to almost break. We ducked into Point Judith, tied up to a dock, and began calling riggers. Among the people we called were old family friends in Noank, round-the-world sailors who indeed knew a rigger. Next afternoon, we were tied up to their Ram Island Yacht Club dock, I hauled Will up the mast in a bosun’s chair to retrieve the stay, and the rigger took it away and came back and hour later with a new one, which Will then installed.

Not only did we solve the issue in very short order, but we had a delightful couple of days exploring the environs with Sandy and Sidney, including an art opening, a tour of a magnificent boat restoration project, and a walk at a land trust that was Sidney’s inspiration over 50 years ago.

After a good day of sailing across Long Island Sound—the first time raising our new sails—we put in to Port Jefferson. Dropping the mainsail, we discovered that three of our six battens were popping out of their boxes at the mast, preventing us from lowering the sail! Eventually, we straightened out the battens and lowered the sail, and immediately got on the phone to our sailmaker to help us find someone to fix the problem. He contacted a sail loft in City Island, which is where we were headed next. Once again, we were able to have the batten boxes replaced the very next day at Doyle Sails, along with adding some other reinforcements that our traditional sailmaker in Boothbay had omitted. The adjacent boatyard let us stay the night on one of their moorings for free, and collected us with our sail and delivered us back to the boat, several times, in their launch. The people at the yard and sail loft couldn’t have been nicer.

And as we waited for the heavy fog to lift so we could make our way through NYC on the East River, we got a personal tour of the City Island Historical Museum, which told of the heyday of boatbuilding and sail making on City Island. Lucky for us, Doyle is the last of a long tradition of sail makers on the island who is still there, although they are about to move to a new location up the coast.

After waiting for the fog to lift, we motored through NYC, hitting over 11 knots at Hell Gate where the tide rips, which was an amazing experience. As we emerged on the other side, we were once again socked in with fog, just as we entered the busy shipping channels by Brooklyn. We have not yet invested in AIS—a new technology and replacement for radar—but we do have an AIS app that shows us boats coming and going, and we have a fog horn and VHF radio, so we nimbly dodged the ship traffic and hailed a couple on the radio and managed to avoid any close encounters. All in all, an exciting day of responding to what comes at you, sometimes fast and furiously on the water.

With northerly winds predicted for a number of days out, our next several days had us sailing along the New Jersey coast, stopping overnight at Barnegat Inlet and Cape May. To gain local knowledge on entering the notoriously hairy inlet at Barnegat where wind and current collide, we called the Coast Guard, who offered to escort us in, once again, surrendering to the abundance that seems to come our way at regular intervals.

Given the forecast for ongoing northerlies, we decided to continue sailing outside Maryland and northern Virginia, rather than taking the much longer route through Delaware and Chesapeake Bay. Twice we planned on a shorter distance and twice we responded to the favorable winds by pushing on to make more miles in a day, sailing nine hours both days and arriving just before dark. Our first stop was Ocean City, MD, where just before we arrived, we lost a shackle that holds the tack of the mainsail to the gooseneck. Since we couldn’t find a replacement, Will improvised a soft shackle to hold the sail in place. Upon leaving, we discovered our top batten had slipped out without our noticing, so we called the manufacturer and had one sent overnight to our next destination. Added to our TO DO list is to sew down the batten pockets.

Our second stop was Wachateague Inlet, VA, which rivaled Barnegat for hairy, but we headed downwind and things settled down for another good day of sailing. That is, until we approached the tip of Virginia’s northern coast when the aluminum fitting on our boom vang, which holds the boom down, sheered off from the mast! It hadn’t been a problem, but we’d been pushing the boat and the fitting was old, so once again we had to respond. Dropping sails, we motored the rest of the way into Norfolk, settling into a calm marina in the shadow of the largest naval base in the world. Thankfully, we were about to enter the ICW where sailing wasn’t on the agenda, so we got on the phone to our guy in RI who is sending us an upgraded fitting, along with a couple of shackles and some replacement lines.

By responding to what arises, we have found abundance, over and over.

Adventure

One definition of adventure is to enter into something the outcome of which is unknown. This has certainly been the case with our adventure so far! “Issues” aside, I’ve been astounded by the variety in our environment and experience: waking at dawn and sailing until dark in 15-20 kts with 2-4’ seas; motoring past the United Nations and Statue of Liberty; anchoring in the shadow of a ferris wheel; getting a personal tour of the reconstruction of the largest wooden Herreshoff sloop ever built; visiting with old family friends whom I haven’t seen since I was a teenager; passing within hailing distance of dozens of navy ships; passing through the shipping channel into Chesapeake Bay; motoring through the narrow canal that is the Dismal Swamp; “locking in” at the two locks that control the water level of the canal; being welcomed by maritime missionaries; and hanging out with a bunch of French Canadians.

But more than that, it’s the people we’ve met who have made the adventure something truly special. Paul at Warren River Boatworks is a true gem who gives so generously of his time and experience because he simply can’t help himself. Sandy and Sid shared their passion for boats, art, and land preservation. Fred, the City Island boatyard dockmaster, routinely went out of his way to make our lives easier in an unexpectedly low-key way for New York City. Mark, the sail loft owner, responded to our situation by throwing his entire crew at the project to get it done in a day, taking time to explain what they were doing and to chat. The City Island museum director gave us an impassioned, succinct 100-year lookback of the island, which was clearly motivated by her personal connection to the place. Keith not only welcomed us at the dock but after knowing us only an hour, took us to his house for fast internet, as well as to the grocery store. Rene and Kathy from Montreal invited us onto their boat and translated a French song for Will. And dancing to Madonna with a ten-year-old around the firepit was an unexpected joy!

The adventure continues as we surrender to the abundance that surrounds us each and every moment!

NIRVANA S3:E4

September 27, 2022

Our journey south has begun—sort of—which is why we’re still in Season 3. After a three-day sail back to South Portland from Down East and a week of preparation, we left familiar waters and sailed five days south to Warren, RI, where we’ve been since Labor Day. We’ve been in the expert hands of Paul Dennis, the Freedom Whisperer, who has been working with us to repair and upgrade sv NIRVANA, the vessel that cradles and carries us into worlds unknown—The Big Adventure!

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It was the end of August and time to think about heading back to South Portland in order to be in Rhode Island the first week of September, which we’d lined up with Paul back in March. Before heading west, we decided to head east again from Swan’s Island to Frenchboro, a sweet island that was one of our favorites on our cruise last year. It being such a small island, we encountered a number of the same people we met last year. John, the coffee roaster from Michigan spends summers on the island with his family and delivers Lobster Love coffee to boats on his paddle board. One afternoon, we watched his son and friends jumping from the ferry dock! The island has a ferry that comes only four times a week, has no grocery store, and is largely preservation land, thanks to the foresight of people who care. The Island Market on neighboring Swans’ Island delivers food when needed, which is quite a service. We enjoyed a long hike to the far side of the island where we climbed the large rock isthmus with Mount Desert Island in the distance. One more overnight in Burnt Coat Harbor on Swan’s allowed us to visit the swimming quarry and get a few more Jonah crabs before heading back.

We left in dense fog for Monhegan, 46 miles to the southwest, motoring most of the way until the wind finally picked up, allowing us to sail the last hour or so. It was raining when we arrived, but we had the foresight to call ahead for a reservation at The Island Inn and had a fabulous meal peering out the window at our boat in the harbor. Leaving Monhegan, we checked our fuel to discover we had 1/8-1/16th of a tank, whereupon we immediately shut down the engine. When we left Swan’s, we were down to about a half a tank, but as the winds were predicted to be favorable for the next two days, Will wanted to hold off filling our tanks until we got back to Portland where he had a certificate for free fuel. That decision had us heading eight miles out of the way in very light winds toward the nearest fuel dock…until the wind picked up and we said, this is after all a sailboat, let’s just sail! It was truly a change of perspective, as we ambled along at 2-3 knots, half the speed we needed in order to make it back to Portland that night, as planned.

And so plans changed, and we decided instead on an overnight at Seguin Island, where we tacked upwind for the last hour, running the engine for a brief five minutes to pick up a mooring. The next day, we set off toward our home port, the winds teasing us all day as we sailed between 2 and 4 knots past Casco Bay. All the while, we were remembered the book we read, Penelope Down East, about sailing the coast of Maine in an engineless catboat. We were both grateful for our engine, as well as for the opportunity to do something we hadn’t set out to do, namely have the experience of getting from A to B without the use of our engine. The story could have had a romantic ending whereby we sailed into Portland Harbor, starting the engine only as we pulled up to the fuel dock. However, approaching Cushing Island as dark descended, sailing less than two knots, a severe thunderstorm was predicted and we broke down and called Sea Tow. We were hoping they would simply deliver us some diesel but that would have taken more time, so instead—I hate to admit this—we were towed into the harbor and up to the fuel dock! Well, the storm passed by us and the wind picked up, and as it turns out, we had about three gallons left in the tank. We chocked it all up to experience and motored to our cozy dock under the Casco Bay bridge in South Portland as night fell, relieved to be back.

Needless to say, the experience sparked a lot of conversation between us. From my perspective, I was initially focused on the “lessons learned” to “avoid” the experience in the future: 1) carry spare diesel, 2) keep the tank topped off, and 3) in addition to keeping track of our daily engine hours, keep a running total so we know how many hours we’ve run at all times. From Will’s perspective, he was initially grateful for the opportunity to experience something we might not otherwise have experienced, not something to be “avoided.” The next day, I approached his perspective and he approached mine, so eventually we arrived together, appreciating the communication it engendered between us, as well as the “learnings.”

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The next week saw us schlepping stuff on and off the boat, driving back and forth between my house, the boat, the hardware store, and the grocery store, countless times. One of the keys to living on a boat is having only what you need, while at the same time, having everything you might need or want, all within the confines of 36’. We sorted through books and clothes, stocked up on some favorite food items, and brought along, among other things, the water maker Will had been storing in the basement in case we might want to install it one day. We replaced our mattress with new foam and in so doing, were able to pass along our somewhat worn but still usable thick foam mattress to our boat neighbor Rick, a lobsterman who has been fixing up his small sailboat and living aboard since the spring. To thank us, the next day he showed up with six hard shell lobsters, which we shared with friends and family over the next two days. Over the course of the week, we enjoyed watching many large boats come and go, always a fun pastime.

We visited our friend Alan who had just sold his boat and was getting rid of his chart books of the Bahamas, which he passed along with plenty of advice and stories. OK, this is getting more real by the day! Among the stories was how great it was to explore the islands on his folding bike. “Oh, is that something you want to sell?” “Sure,” he said, and on the spot, we decided to trade my electronic keyboard for two folding bikes in the precious space in our aft cabin, aka the “garage.” I had initially rejected the idea of bringing the single folding bike Will already had, but with two, this would add a whole new level to our exploration! Getting them on and off the boat in the dinghy will be the next challenge.

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A bunch of farewells later and we were sailing out of Portland Harbor on Sept 1 bound for Rhode Island. We passed lighthouse after lighthouse, rounding Portland Head Light, heading in a new direction and unfamiliar waters—namely South! I couldn’t help feeling a bit overcome by the momentous journey we were embarking upon.

Our first destination was the historic Isle of Shoals, a lovely archipelago off the coast of Portsmouth, with half the islands in Maine and half in New Hampshire. On Day 2, we tried out our radial spinnaker for the first time to try and catch some speed but ended up motoring all the way to Cohasset in no wind—grateful for the engine, and fuel! Rounding Gloucester and seeing the Boston skyline in the distance was positively surreal.

Day 3 was another day of motoring along the Massachusetts coast to the Cape Cod Canal, where we arrived at precisely slack tide, as planned, and saw 8.5 knots as we approached Buzzards Bay as the current turned in our favor. Our overnight anchored off the beach in Woods Hole was delightful, including a fantastic meal at a local restaurant. On Day 4, the winds allowed us to mostly sail across Buzzards Bay to the Sakonnet River in Rhode Island, then a downwind leg up the river to an anchorage called Fogland. Rain was predicted for the next day but held off long enough for us to motor the last leg, under two bridges, past Bristol, to the head of the river to Warren River Boat Works, which would be our home for the next month. Forgive my redundancy, but I’m strangely fascinated by all the lighthouses along the coast, which have guided mariners for centuries, as well as the audacity and ingenuity of man to have engineered and built so many bridges that span so many bodies of water.

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We feel incredibly fortunate to have found Paul Dennis, who is not only a Freedom expert who used to build these boats but is a mentor to so many Freedom owners out there as he generously shares his knowledge, wisdom, and advice on the phone all day long. Every day, he regales us with stories about the intricacies of Freedom Yachts, which we find fascinating. Although he certainly can and does get his hands dirty, his expertise is in knowing exactly what needs doing and then orchestrating the complex sequence of events to make things happen in a timely manner, including hauling the boat for a week at the nearby small, family-owned Stanley’s Boatyard. We had a long list of things we needed to have done, a shorter list of things we would like to have done, and an as yet unknown list of things Paul recommended that we have done. On day one, we let him know that Will was not only willing but eager to do a lot of the work himself, so under Paul’s watchful guidance and eye, and with the use of his shop and a loaner truck, we’ve been able to accomplish all that and more! In this cozy three-slip boat yard, we were helping with dock lines and laughed out loud that it is big enough to spring on us another Freedom named Nirvana and another Natasha! This just seems the norm here: tiny little Bristol/Warren is home to Herreshoffs, Bristols, Shannons, Tillotson Pearsons, Aldens, and Dyers, to name a few. It seems only fitting that John, one of the two Herreshoff boat-building wiz-kid brothers, did his work blind since age 15.

For the boat geeks out there reading this, we’re repairing numerous issues with the boom and mast, including replacing the wires and adding insulation so they don’t clank inside the mast while we sleep. We’re getting a wind instrument that actually works and ties in with our autopilot, imagine that! With the help of Paul’s welder, we’ve repaired some broken fittings on the boom and are upgrading our outhaul, reefing system, and lazy jacks to catch more of the sail when it drops. We’re replacing halyards and lines, upgrading the original, difficult-to-operate rope clutches, and adding a flag halyard, which Freedom yachts don’t have because they have no stays! In fact, you need to fly a courtesy flag when you enter a new country, and we just bought one for the Bahamas. We’ve replaced two leaky opening ports, and repaired two more with spare parts from Paul’s shop. And we will soon replace the hazed fixed ports with tempered glass that we can actually see out of, as well as two leaking hatches, one of which is over our bed in the v-berth. What an upgrade all this will be!

We’ve repaired the rudder, which had too much play from day one and involved removing the steering quadrant, dropping the rudder, modifying and refitting the bushing, and replacing the rudder and quadrant. How, you might ask do you “drop” the rudder with its long rudder stock? The first time, the travel lift lifted up the boat. The second time, Will dug a hole under the rudder in the gravel! “Caribbean style, mon,” according to our neighbor Steve. We’ve sanded and painted the bottom, and raised the waterline so we have less visible marine growth. At Paul’s recommendation, Ethan the mechanic replaced the worn propeller shaft, replaced our dripping stuffing box with a dripless shaft seal, and replaced the raw water intake thru hull and strainer with a larger one. All this means no more water in the bilge where you don’t want it and more water going through the engine where you do. We’ve installed a temperature gauge and replaced the worn wire from the engine to the batteries. And if all that wasn’t enough, Will, the dear, removed the head holding tank and is replacing it with a tank of the exact same size that just happened to be hanging around Paul’s shop. His shop just happens to have parts like custom bearings and mastheads, and doors and antique faucets that fit our boat and which he is happy to be rid of, so we couldn’t have gotten work done at a better place. The used watermaker which had no backstory miraculously worked on the second try, and the new water tank is perfectly sized to take up no existing storage space. It will hold the fresh water that we will be making using  reverse osmosis  that turns salt water into fresh! Friends tell us it’s a game changer as it means less worry about running out of water and more showers!

In between all the work, we had a chance to visit the Herreshoff Museum in Bristol on the site of the former Herreshoff Manufacturing Company, which produced some of the finest steam, sailing, and racing vessels ever made, dating back to 1878, including numerous America’s Cup winners. It was truly a thrill to see a warehouse full of Herreshoffs, including a “catamaran” designed by Captain Nat in the early 1900s, as well as all of his hand-made models that he used to design his boats. We also got a tour of a “food incubator” in Warren that has been running for ten years, offering food entrepreneurs the opportunity to create food in one of four impressive commercial kitchens. Warren, it turns out, is full of great restaurants within a short walk from where we’re docked.

We had a visit from my dear friend from Junior High School who just moved back east with her fiancé, as well as my aunt and uncle, whom I haven’t seen in years. I also went back to South Portland for a week to enjoy my house for the first time in over a year because it’s been rented, find new tenants while we’re away for the winter, and visit family and friends once again. And after months of waiting, I also picked up our brand, new sails from our sailmaker in Boothbay! Our dear friend Rebecca offered to drive with me back to RI with the sails, and we enjoyed the spectacle of Water Fire in Providence before she headed back with my car.

One more week of boat work and we should be ready to set sail toward the Bahamas, which we expect to take us a couple of months as we slowly make our way down the coast, day sailing, heading into the Intercoastal Waterway from Norfolk to Beaufort, and dodging hurricanes, as required. But that’s the future, and we’re in the now, so look for another blog when the now is the past. Until then, all things continue to unfold magically in front of us.

NIRVANA S3:E3

August 18, 2022

We are hunkered down in Burnt Coat Harbor on Swan’s Island for a couple days of rain and fog, which has been unusual for this dry, sunny summer. Will is picking meat from one of the four Jonah crabs we bought yesterday after a refreshing swim in the quarry. Along the way, we also bought two “old shell” cooked lobsters from a self-serve seafood shack and eighteen oysters from Tim Trafton’s farm off the public dock. While small, the oysters were super sweet and tender, and the cooked lobsters were a treat we enjoy occasionally. (Will’s lobster trap is now taken apart into flat pieces and stowed in the lazarette for the next design iteration.) The crabcakes he made for lunch were out of this world, and the movie we watched on the laptop was a welcome break from the wind, currents, and lobster pots we faced getting here.

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Last you heard from us, we were on North Haven contemplating a sail further “Down East,” as they say. After an overnight in Merchant Row just south of Stonington, we sailed twenty miles east to the Hinckley Boat Yard in Southwest Harbor to fill up on water and fuel, empty trash, do some laundry, have a hot shower, and pick up a few freshies. We’d read that beyond Schoodic Peninsula, services are almost nonexistent, so we wanted to be prepared.

While tanking up, we discovered that our custom system for pumping pee overboard from our dehydrating toilet was clogged with calcium deposits and nonfunctional. Not only that, but our water tank had a small crack at the top and was leaking. This required a trip to the hardware store a couple of miles in to town for some specialty repair items. On the dock, Kimberly was detailing a gorgeous red Hinckley yacht readying it for its next charter, and we asked to come aboard. “It’s not my boat so I’m not going to say no,” she replied, and we went on board to see what ten grand a week will buy. We learned that since working at the yard, she’s been dreaming of living on a sailboat, so we invited her aboard our boat to see how “the other half” lived. “I’m heading to town after work if you need a ride,” she offered, and we gladly took her up on it. Not only that, but she waited at the hardware store while we were like kids in a candy store, drove us to Hamilton Marine for special glue to repair the water tank, and then drove us back to the yard with our stash! Thankfully, in a mere afternoon, we were able to rig up the hose to a small gas can to collect the pee and repair the tank, and we were back in business!

Not my boat!

That evening, we enjoyed another fantastic fish sandwich at Peter Trout’s, which we remembered from last year. At the next table, we were attracted to five-year-old Theo’s interest in boats as he devoured every detail of his new boat book with beautiful woodblock pictures and cutaways. “We live on a boat,” we offered, and he lit up with awe and curiosity as perhaps only a precocious five-year-old can. We spent the next hour getting to know this lovely family who had recently bought a house in the area to complement their life in Brooklyn during COVID. Their attraction to Maine? All those wonderful Robert McCloskey books—One Morning in Maine, Blueberries for Sal, A Time of Wonder, and Burt Dow. “We’ll stop by on our way back through and give you a tour of our boat,” we said, and it was a date!

It took another day for the wind to turn in our favor, so after dropping off a gift for Kimberly to inspire her dreams, we set off for the fabled Roque Island. The winds were a solid 15-20 knots out of the southwest with seas of 2-4 feet, which meant we fairly flew past Schoodic Peninsula, over the Petit Manan Bar, heading almost due east five miles from shore.

First stop, Mistake Island, ten miles from Roque, just past Moose Peak Light perched on pink granite and the amazing cliffs in Main Channel Way. While it looked like a great anchorage on the chart, it was very exposed to the strong southwest winds, so we motored two miles back to Mud Hole on Great Wass Island. This place is literally a hurricane hole deep in an extremely shallow inlet, which you can only enter at half-tide or better, with a deep mud “hole” in the middle. It felt a little weird to be motoring over three feet at low tide, but we had plenty of water and arrived in this idyllic spot in the middle of nowhere to find two other boats, one of which we followed in. We brought fresh baked brownies to our neighbors, because, well, it felt like we were a little community in the making. Which, in fact, is the case in nearly every harbor we enter, where boaters come and go, creating transient water-based “villages,” much like roving rangales of deer or migratory birds on land. It is indeed a different way of connecting with people and the environment, in such a transitory way. Ah, but when everyone leaves and it’s just us in Mud Hole, it’s NIRVANA! The hike along the shore was glorious, giving us a land-based perspective that is such a contrast to our boat-centric vantage point. And inspired by our neighbor (and Chris from our previous blog), we used this opportunity to practice some boat yoga.

The ten miles to Roque was easy after the previous sail. We arrived at the huge cove with a mile of sand beach and a number of other boats, so this remote island didn’t feel all that remote after all. We rowed ashore for a walk on the beach, which ended up being a long lesson in humility after getting doused by a wave over the stern of the dinghy and digging deep to get over myself. It was yet another opportunity for deep communication about mutual respect for our differences. Despite resetting our anchor to be more inshore, the swells resulted in a rolly night, so we decided to leave the next morning in the fog for a nearby anchorage. Rounding the corner, we encountered high winds and rough seas, so we retreated to Bunker Cove, a tiny protected inlet where Patriot ships took refuge from the British during the Revolutionary war.

The lone lobster pot in this small anchorage plagued us for an hour as the wind and tide spun this way and that until, in the ten minutes of dropping my guard, it got caught on our rudder. After trying to free it, we cut the toggle, preserving the buoy and trap. Turning the wheel, I discovered it didn’t rotate all the way in one direction and was convinced a piece of line was still stuck. Will disagreed and then said, “Time to try out your new wetsuit!” Reluctantly but with moxie, I stripped down, dragged on the wetsuit, and dipped slowly into the icy water off the transom. Will was right, there was no line caught. So what was causing the wheel to stop? Upon further investigation, he discovered a dangling piece of hardware on the steering quadrant under the pushpit deck that was missing a screw and preventing the wheel from turning. The coincidence was uncanny, and we were happy to have had the occasion to investigate the issue before it became a bigger problem out at sea. As we’ve pointed out in previous blogs, sometimes these “mishaps” are actually opportunities in disguise, and is in fact how Will has learned to live his life; I am slowly catching up.

After four days Down East, we headed back to Southwest Harbor in a light southwest wind with 3-5 foot seas, motoring nine and half hours the whole way. It was good to know the boat could do it, but more importantly, that we could do it. Exhausted, we picked up a mooring and took a nap, then motored a short way up Somes Sound to the beautiful Valley Cove, with its hundred-foot rock face. Once again, we encountered the American Eagle schooner, as well as a number of other boats. The hike up Flying Point Mountain the next day was delightful, complete with blueberries and an international crowd of hikers at Acadia National Park. A delightful Colombian family with a young son was deeply intrigued with living aboard, so Will rowed them out the see the boat and make it real for them. Lingering for another day, we were once again the lone boat for a magical spell as we dove deeper into The Overstory by Richard Powers, winner of the Pulitzer Prize for this outstanding book where trees are the heroes. Spending so much time immersed in nature these past months has given us a deeper appreciation for this magnificent book than we might otherwise have had. We highly recommend you read it if you haven’t already.

Next morning, a large megayacht pulled into our anchorage, so we took that as a sign it was time to move on. After a quick detour in Southwest Harbor to fill our water tanks and walk to town for lunch and some provisions, we were off again. As promised, we took a detour to Duck Cove to visit the family we met over a fish sandwich to show them our boat. We rowed them out, shared a bowl of peanuts and some sparkling rose, and gave them a tour. Theo especially enjoyed counting the number of cabinets, drawers, and cubbies in the boat: 48! He also instructed us on what a tardigrade was—a near microscopic aquatic animal that can survive in almost all environments. A note for all ears: If we can keep this level of curiosity and wonder alive in our souls, we will live happily, like a child. Please remember this!

We found ourselves in Mackerel Cove on Swan’s Island for a night of high winds, so next day we reached out to our friend Doug, who started the Sweet Chariot Music Festival and whom we got to know last year. We invited him aboard and he was quite intrigued with our modern boat, given his 1950’s classic Sparkman & Stephens. He was especially impressed by our navigation app on the tablet, and he determined to buy one the next day. We’ve since given him some phone coaching, as it’s sometimes hard to transition to new technology when you’re old school like he is. But you know what they say, “Once you go tech, it’s hard to go beck.” (Sorry!) But seriously, Navionics is a wonder and makes navigating so easy, without costing thousands of dollars.

Cruising up the Eggemoggin Reach and under the Deer Island bridge was a thrill, then making our way past a seal-covered rock into Horseshoe Cove was equally delightful. At low tide, we rowed ashore to forage for mussels and once again came back with a bucketful. Despite the doomsayers who are convinced the green crabs have eaten all the Maine mussels, we haven’t found that to be the case. Although this small harbor was full of sailboats on moorings, no one was aboard so we had the place virtually to ourselves, allowing a cockpit shower from our Sun Shower and dancing on deck. Life is good!

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The next phase of our trip included a ten day stay on a floating dock in Belfast harbor next to our friend Sandy, who owns her own 33’ sailboat. During that time, I took a bus to Portland where I spent two days getting my house ready to rent to a lovely family of six after a long-term rental to my cousin. It was strange seeing familiar places on land by bus and car, not to mention my house, which I haven’t lived in for over a year. I feel an uncanny distance from it—the rooms and furniture are too big, the stuff too extensive, and the yard too static. It was a healthy reminder of my current choice to live aboard a 36’ sailboat.

After a wonderful visit with my son, daughter-in-law, and mother, I hopped in a car and drove three hours inland to Toothaker Island on Mooselookmeguntic Lake. Will and Sandy joined me after a couple of days, and we all enjoyed the scene that happens there each year around this time, colloquially known as “The Party.” Communal cooking and feasting at The Clubhouse, camping and swimming, spontaneous conversation and music, and an overall spirit of community has made this island of ex-sailors living off-the-grid and their three generations of extended family a magical touchstone for me for many years. I was glad to share it with Will and our new friend.

After the island, we spent another couple of days on the dock in Belfast with Sandy, enjoying this small town. Finding it somewhat difficult to leave, we had a farewell dance and picnic on the dock and boat deck before heading out. Sometimes, it can get a bit too “comfortable” being tethered in one place, and both we and the boat kept whispering, “It’s time to go sailing!” And this time, we had a new crewmember—Ray, our new Raymarine wheel drive for our autopilot, which came in the mail back in Portland and Will installed in Belfast. Ray works like a dream, and we’re continually testing him in different wind and weather conditions. So far so amazing. Now we can both eat our salad in the cockpit at the same time while underway, and we can spend our time dodging lobster pots with a touch of a button. We’re very happy!

Holbrook Sanctuary near Castine was tranquil and the hikes energizing. The Barred and Butter Islands eight miles to the south were so delightful we spent three nights, watching the sunsets, rowing, hiking, making spontaneous art, and communing with nature and each other.

Isle au Haut was a treasure, including a vigorous hike up Duck Harbor Mountain, part of Acadia National Park, where we peered onto our boat from almost three hundred feet up, and gorgeous sunsets over Flake Island. We were also treated to a tour of the old Point Lookout Club, now privately owned by friends of the family who share it widely with their extended family and friends. It’s amazing how many gems like this one still exist on these more remote islands that haven’t changed in decades, a far cry from the tear-down mentality of the Portland waterfront, say, or name any other place you can think of on the mainland.

We continue to be struck by the simplicity and beauty of life on the islands of Maine. And to be able to see them by boat is such a gift, which we marvel at almost daily, recognizing both the privilege and determination that it takes to be here. And for that we are ongoingly grateful.

NIRVANA S3:E2

July 20, 2022

Has it really only been three weeks since we left the dock? And only just over two weeks since we left the familiar waters of Casco Bay? The experience of time has an amazing way of shifting when you’re living aboard a sailboat and you move from place to place at a pace not much faster than a leisurely bicycle ride. Perhaps it’s the slowing down of doing that changes the experience of time. And yet, there is still plenty of doing on a sailboat—raising and lowering sails; dropping and raising the anchor; plotting a course; raising and lowering the dinghy from the davits; rowing ashore and back; buying, stowing, preparing, eating, and cleaning up from preparing food; discovering and solving boat issues; oh yes, and sailing and motoring. We engage deeply with the environment, perhaps because there’s simply more time to participate in the full experience of it. Not only is the process of being in a place richer, but the process of getting there becomes a big part of what we do. And despite the seeming isolation, we feel intimately connected with the people we meet, albeit for the most part, fleetingly. I believe it’s the slowing down that makes time stretch out like salt water taffy. Whatever the explanation, it feels like we’ve been gone for ages.

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After a week of cruising in Casco Bay with friends while we wait for our new dodger to be delivered and installed, we upgrade our rain gear in Freeport and fortuitously add to the inventory of mostly safety-related boat gadgets at a pre-yard sale yard sale of a lifelong sailor and teacher of women sailors who recently sold her boat—radar reflector, overboard rescue system, emergency boarding ladder, wet suit, anchor webbing. We stock up on groceries, have a farewell dinner with my mother, drop off the car, and head out on July 4. It’s a fitting day given the freedom we immediately feel when we shift from traveling on asphalt ribbons in carbon-powered, steel-encased vehicles, winding past linear structures, in favor of wind-in-the-sails travel, the ever-fluid sea buoying our vessel, and the multi-faceted, organic shapes of nature our guideposts—our Freedom sailboat, NIRVANA.

The dodger installation is worthy of comment. You might remember from our previous episode that ours blew out in a storm in April and after much searching, we finally found someone to take it on, only to have him abandon the project in the middle. His excuse was that it’s too oddball to replicate using the existing pattern, so he gave us back our deposit along with the completed top. Next came the hunt for someone willing to take on a half-completed project. Amazingly, we find a one-man shop in Bath called P&P Canvas, who not only has the time but the inclination to take on a challenge. Not surprising as this eighty-something has spent twenty years building but not quite completing a 32’ steel boat that is now for sale. (If you know of anyone who might be interested, click here.) Just one week later, he drives down to deliver the dodger and comes back the next day to install it. After a couple of hours, his blood sugar is getting low, so we feed him lunch and he leaves his special tool for installing the snaps so we can complete the project ourselves. Now this is our kind of guy, and we are very grateful for his efforts, for the encounter, and for the result. Not only can we now see better through the Strataglass, but we think the grey looks classy and will keep us cooler in the hot sun. Thank you, Paul!

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On our first day “out,” we sail 26 miles from one end of Casco Bay to the other, passing under the Casco Bay bridge from Knight’s Landing one more time, bypassing all the familiar inner islands, and anchoring off Small Point beach on Cape Small new Seguin Lighthouse. This lovely beach is the largest in Maine and is remarkably empty, it being private, which doesn’t stop us from going ashore.

The next day we make an even longer passage of 40 miles, past the familiar waters of Boothbay Harbor, John’s Bay, Pemaquid Point, Muscongus Bay, and up Mussel Ridge Channel to our very special Birch Island, which was our destination two years ago when we went on our first long cruise together in my Sabre 28. We have a wonderful walk ashore, wondering at nature, harvesting sea peas, dancing on the beach, taking a tide pool dip, and remembering the first time we were there while also acknowledging that nothing stays the same.

Good thing because next morning, we discover our anchor has dragged overnight in the high winds—only the second time ever—which wasn’t a problem in itself except that we had also dragged over two lobster pots. This we discover when pulling up the anchor and the two pot lines dip under the water below our chain. After 45 minutes of trying to get ourselves untangled, we decide to launch the dinghy to assist. Unfortunately, the combination of 15 knots of wind and simultaneously trying to keep us off the rocks 100 feet behind causes Will to become untethered from the boat, and he is stranded on shore for about 10 minutes unable to row back. This is when I pull out the VHF radio to call for assistance and get the Coast Guard, who says they’ll divert a boat our way if necessary. Luckily, a lull in the wind allows Will to row back to the boat, at which point the lobster pot miraculously pops out from under our anchor chain and we are free! Freedom comes in many ways aboard sv NIRVANA, and we are glad for yet another learning experience, luckily with a positive outcome.

Safely on our way and to calm our nerves, we decide not to raise the mainsail and find the boat handles quite well in 15 knots on just the tiny camber spar jib. As the wind dies, we finally raise the main as we approach Vinalhaven. We try anchoring among a sea of lobsterpots in the White Islands, but after three attempts and our earlier experience fresh on our minds, we decide instead to continue up Hurricane Sound to the lovely Long Cove, where we pick up a mooring and celebrate another safe passage.

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After our somewhat harrowing experience at Birch Island, we stay put in Long Cove for five days! And what a delightful place it is, this cove where Margaret Wise Brown wrote Goodnight Moon. For a couple of days, we are the only ones there, aside from a couple of lobstermen. We explore the only two visible properties, one surrounded on three sides by water with a house and boat houses that look like they haven’t been lived in for decades, which we dub Tasha’s World (with apologies to Andrew Wyeth). The other is at the opposite extreme, very intentionally architected, including the grounds but subtly so, with a long private drive flanked by dazzling green ferns leading to a huge “gentleman’s farm,” which is run by a woman whom we meet on the road. So much for stereotypes!

Over the course of our stay, we become the “commodores” of the cove, inviting new arrivals onto the several moorings and visiting each in turn. On a Concordia yawl, we meet a couple we’d met last summer on Mt Desert. On a Morris 36, we spend a couple hours talking with a wonderful couple who had just sold his business, quit her job, and sold their house and car to live aboard full time. After some perfunctory remarks, we discover that they’re quite spiritual about their decision, and like us, they’re not trying to “escape” as much as seek out and explore inward, using a boat as a vehicle to get back to nature and ourselves. We find we have a lot in common around our appreciation of the sublime beauty and tranquility we experience on the sea and the remote locations on land. And yet, we’re all interested in engaging with people and the world in meaningful ways as well, which are not always what one might consider “worldy.” While there are indeed outrageous socio-political doings going on around us, our gifts appear to be more interpersonal and spiritual in nature, rather than political—communing with trees or appreciating the ever-changing ripples on the water—and becoming an “influencer” by sharing that experience with others. For example, it turns out Chris is an author who writes amusing and poignant articles for boating magazines, I choose to share this blog and photos with those who care to read it, and Will has a gift for engaging with locals and learning how they live, think, and thrive as one way of shedding habitual ways of thinking. We may not be reading the news and wringing our hands daily with the rest of the world, but we are living satisfying lives and sharing our contentment with others.

But the highlight of Long Cove is surely foraging for clams, mussels, and lobster. The first day we arrive, we see a guy ashore clamming, so we row over to investigate, bucket and large screwdriver in hand to try our luck. Monty, a third-generation clam digger from Rockland is big fella with a sleeveless shirt, bandana, hip waders, and a cigarette hanging out of his mouth. It’s positively elegant watching this large-bellied man bend over at the waist and dig into the mud with his custom-made clam rake, flip the mud, and pluck out a few giant clams with each flip, tossing them into his clam hod. We chat him up and he tells us all about clamming and how he can make $1000 a day digging. After he’s taken his fill, he leaves us a few, and Will finds another dozen on his own. We stray over to the seaweed covered rock and discover dozens of mussels, which are much easier picking, so we end up with a huge bucketful, which we gorge on for supper. Next day, we find another spot across the cove and gather another bucketful, which we marinate and eat for days.

One day we decide to clean out our rope inventory in the lazarette when along comes a young lobsterman in a small boat. We hail him over and ask whether he has any use for our used lines and he said sure, so we toss him the bag and spend some time chatting about lobstering on Vinalhaven, at which point Will asks, “Do you have any three-foot lobster traps?” “Sure,” Blake said, “My grandfather used to fish those small traps and I’ve got a ton of them.” So we make a date for the next day for him to bring us a trap. At the end of the day, as promised, Blake shows up with a trap, which Will hauls on board, along with two fresh pogies for bait.

We invite Blake aboard and learn that when he was 21, he and his dad jumped from their burning lobster boat—in winter—and swam 45 minutes to reach the shore. It starts to rain and Blake sits outside not bothering much about it as we huddle under the dodger. Like a lot of fishermen, he’s unassuming, genuine, and interested enough in people to instantly engage and share completely when asked about his life. His intimate knowledge of the area makes him so at peace that he exudes contentment, which feels like a stark contrast to so many people who spend their lives struggling to find meaning. If your daily practice is like a meditation—setting and hauling traps—and joy is found in simple pleasures, then there is no struggle and meaning is superfluous.

That night, Will lowers the lobster trap off the side of the boat and in the morning, hauls up a bunch of crabs, which he fishes out with tongs and tosses overboard. The next day, he sets the trap again and that evening hauls up two small lobsters, one a keeper. He lops off the tail, pulls off the inside cartilage, and throws it on the grill with some olive oil while I boil up the body and claws, and we feast on our own fresh lobster! Next night, he tries again and this time hauls up three keepers, including one good-sized bug. Thing is, we had just bought four lobsters from a young fisherman so now we’ve got seven, which we keep in a bucket of water to cook up the next night.

Next day, we learn there’s a schooner race out of Rockland, so we follow the 14 boats around the course and have lots of great opportunities to see these magnificent vessels up close and personal.

After five days, we finally decide to depart Long Cove. Just as we’re getting ready to go, the owners of the mooring we’d been on pull up in their fancy motorboat. We graciously depart, thanking them for the use of their mooring. I will note this is only the second time the owner of a mooring we’ve been on has shown up so we had to leave. The timing couldn’t have been more perfect!

We have a great sail up the west coast of Vinalhaven, match racing the Mary Day schooner as we round the tip of North Haven and down the east coast. We tuck into the Little Thoroughfare between Stimpson and Burnt Islands, keeping company with the Mercantile schooner, which pulls in just after we do. We row ashore and hike around this wonderful public preserve, then cook up the seven lobsters and feast on at least three of them. The rest we save for lobster pasta, which we eat for the next two nights. (Sautee red onion, red pepper, sundried tomatoes, and fresh tomatoes in olive oil, add lobster meat, and serve over pasta.)

The winds are reported to be very high the next day—up to 30 knots—so we motor three short miles to Perry Creek, a very protected harbor where we spent five days last summer. Predictably, it’s jam packed with boats sheltering from the high winds. Luckily, we find a mooring deep in the harbor where we sit tight most of the day, listening to music, making soup, and taking apart the autopilot, which has not been behaving very well. On a wonderful hike along the creek, we encounter Paul, another sailor in the harbor, who engages us in a long conversation, and we invite him over to see our boat and we spend another hour talking about many things boat and land related. I have never seen a happier man, out for a week alone on his sailboat, hiking the trails, and engaging authentically. Is it the sailing lifestyle that brings out these qualities in the people we meet?

No wind the next morning, so we motor into the Fox Island Thoroughfare to North Haven for a quick stop at JO Brown boatyard in search of our friend Foy, who recued us last year by fixing our starter motor. We only see him at a distance as he ferries people across the thoroughfare by boat. We continue around to the east side of Vinalhaven, circumnavigating the island, and end up at the western entrance to The Reach, yet another thoroughfare which proves to be extremely rolly when the ferry boats steam past. Nonetheless, it was a sweet anchorage and home to the Atlantic Cup challenge.

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Now we’re on our way to Rockland to meet up with Will’s friend Ben, who is coming aboard for a couple nights after four days on the American Eagle schooner. We arrive at the town dock to discover the farmer’s market is underway, so we stock up on local produce. Ben takes Will in his car to do some provisioning as our larder is quite bare while I wash down the boat, which makes me happy. Repeatedly hauling a muddy lobster trap on board and lopping off lobster tails makes for a very messy boat. Sailboats and lobster traps don’t exactly go together, and mostly the trap lives in the dinghy, but Will persists and for the nonce, I remain tolerant of this noble experiment. Our friend Sandy is on a mooring on the other side of the harbor, so we motor over and pick up a mooring next to her, and she and Guy come over with oysters to share a meal onboard our boat. Will spends the morning cutting the lobster trap down to about half its size so it’s not quite so unmanageable, which also makes me happy.

Ben comes aboard in time for an afternoon departure, back across Penobscot Bay, back through the Fox Island Thoroughfare, and into Seal Bay on the east coast. We spend a delightful evening listening to Ben play the harmonica, and playing and DJing music. We row around this lovely bay with small islands covered in seals at low tide and get underway in the afternoon for our second circumnavigation of Vinalhaven.

We stop at Brimstone, a desolate island off the south east coast of Vinalhaven with a rocky beach full of smooth polished stones and a wonderful view from the top. Although hard to reach, it’s well worth the visit. (Ben gets credit for some of these great pictures.)

We continue on to Hurricane Island for the night and have a great time ashore the next day, walking the trails on this former quarry island turned outdoor science and leadership center and former home to Hurricane Island Outward Bound School (HIOBS). Among the many interesting people we meet Pete Willauer, who founded HIOBS back in 1964 and happens to be on the island for a visit and who was a good friend and colleague of my uncle Roland, who died last year. It is a very special encounter indeed as he reminisces about times with Roland. We also run into Kip and Corkie, whom we met last year on Hurricane Island, this time on their Freedom 38, which it turns out they bought after coming aboard our boat last year and being inspired to buy one of their own. You just never know who you are going to influence in this life! (Thanks again for capturing the moment, Ben.)

We motor back across to Rockland in the fog to deliver Ben, sending him off with the Full Nirvana Treatment—a loaf of our homemade bread—before taking off for more distant shores. Will goes ashore to do some more provisioning while I wrestle with my need for understanding, clarity, and predictability when it comes to the tides, which causes some consternation between us. After a long conversation with Garmin, the makers of our navigation app, I am enlightened by my lack of enlightenment. While I want to rely on the numbers, it’s actually not all that precise so best to use your judgement and remain vigilant. Yet another example where an over-reliance on technology is ill-advised. That said, when we take off that afternoon in thick fog, following the plotted course and compass bearing are the only thing that keep me from sailing in circles. Technology does have its place; the trick, of course, is maintaining the right balance and having a healthy respect for its pitfalls and limitations.

Amazingly, as we approach Pulpit Harbor on the north side of North Haven, out of the thick fog emerges a sailboat, which turns out to be none other than another Freedom 38! We radio across the fog and agree to meet up that evening in the harbor. We don our rain gear and row over for a delightful evening talking all things Freedom. We are a dedicated bunch, we Freedom lovers!

And now it’s time to depart North Haven to head down east toward Deer Island and Mt Desert, but that’s the next episode…

NIRVANA S3:E1

Jun 26, 2022

The beginning of the sailing season aboard sv NIRVANA has officially begun! After five weeks at Spring Point Marina in South Portland, we finally untethered from the dock on June 16. Living aboard at the marina allowed us to enjoy the proximity to Bug Light, downtown Portland, friends, and family, as well as to ready the boat for our second sailing season in Maine.

Our first cruise is an overnight to Jewell Island with our new friends Bill and Kristin, whom we met at DiMillo’s last winter. Although neither of them has much sailing experience, they bought a 49’ boat a year ago and have been rebuilding nearly every system and lived aboard most of the winter. We leave in a thunderstorm, have a short sail after the weather cleared, and then pull into the anchorage just as more rain descends. It’s fun showing them our ropes, grilling fish in the cockpit, feasting on fresh bread and pancakes, hiking around the island, and climbing the tall tower that gives a wonderful view of Casco Bay. Let the summer games begin!

We take various friends out for a sail locally in Casco Bay, including a birthday cruise to the Goslings and taking the dinghy ashore on the white sand beach on Long Island. After walking across the island, we discover a small café and buy a blueberry pie, which we share in the cockpit.

As we’re raising sail on the way back, we lose our jib halyard up the mast. Damn! Next day, Will makes arrangements with Bill to meet us at Knight’s Landing in South Portland to help haul him up the mast in the bosun’s chair to retrieve it. Will was calm and steady, and I was surprisingly nerve-free despite his height of at least 35 feet up.

Knight’s Landing is a little hidden gem under the Casco Bay Bridge that connects Portland and South Portland where Will spent most of the summer two years ago with his former boat. The dock has a bird’s eye view of the oil tankers coming and going so has a very industrial feel and is a local haunt for those in the know, especially because you can stay overnight for free. We meet the usual cast of characters—a pair of fishermen brothers, one of whom has been living on his scrappy, demasted boat and gives us a half dozen crabs from his brother’s lobster boat; the guy who runs the South Portland Sailing School and happens to have bought our old mooring; and none other than Simon and Jill, my son and daughter-in-law, doing a Solstice sunset cruise on Jill’s boat, On the Rocks Cocktail Cruises. Jill got her captain’s license two years ago and is running her boat for the second year, this time with a liquor license.

We spend a few low-key nights at Clapboard Island just across from Falmouth Foreside where I used to keep my Sabre 28 sailboat. Never having gone ashore here, we discover a sweet writer’s hut owned by the Maine Coast Heritage Trust, where we come across a book with a chapter dedicated to Alna, Maine, the town where my relatives have lived since the 1940’s.

One morning we’re invited aboard the Linda Kate, a 40’ fishing boat whose captain Will got to know at DiMillo’s as he was preparing his boat for the season. In addition to lobstering, his boat is now outfitted for purse seining and scalloping to diversify his catch. His wife is one of the newest aquaculture farmers in the bay growing and harvesting sea kelp. He invites us aboard for a day of fishing and we readily accept. We wake at 5:30 AM and watch as they haul the huge net aboard for a day of pogie fishing. With two crew, Will who is willing to get his hands dirty, and me, the film crew, we have an extraordinary experience fishing for pogies, which is one of the primary bait fish for lobster. It takes a while to locate a school among the other fishing boats, but eventually he spots one based on the oily purplish water and “flips,” not to mention the seals who are circling for food. With great finesse, they drop the net being careful not to catch a foot in the line and begin to circle up the fish when the captain realizes he didn’t attach a line, so out pour all the fish! With the assistance of a hydraulic winch, they haul the net, carefully packing the floats and metal rings so it can again run free. Another hunting expedition and we regroup around the same school, set the net again, and this time, haul eight barrels, only half of the legal catch for each boat. We are regaled by his crew who is extremely knowledgeable about purse seining and lobstering and is on the verge of launching a new sustainable fishery business he’s invented for crabs, squid, and whelks. Impressive!

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But lest you think that our pre-sailing season has been all smooth sailing, let us now share some of the experiential learning that has led up to our casting off from the dock. When it comes to boat preparation, I am someone who emphasizes planning, list-making, and methodical progress, and I dive in only when I feel sufficiently prepared. But how prepared can you really be when there’s still so much that’s unknown and we’re both still learning? Another approach is to simply “go for it” and figure it out as you go. Obviously, there’s a place for both, especially when so much depends on the unpredictable nature of nature, humans, and the material world!

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Our planning starts in February when we order a composting toilet kit to replace our head to avoid having to find places to pump out our holding tank while cruising. Will had experience with one on his previous boat and was a big advocate, so he dives in carving a 5-gallon bucket to fit the “pee diverter” and then carving a wedge out of the bottom of the bucket to place it closer to the curved wall of the hull. Next comes removing the existing head and hoses (thank you Will for taking on that nasty job), installing the bucket and hoses, and fitting a teak plywood cover over the whole area, complete with hinged openings for trash and the composting material, in our case, coffee chafe. This stuff is a bi-product of the coffee roasting process and can be obtained in huge quantities for free from our local coffee roaster in Portland. It’s light and fluffy, absorbs moisture, and you guessed it, smells like coffee, which is pretty sweet when blending with poop to absorb not only the moisture but the smell.

The last step is deciding what to do with the pee, which when separated from the poop doesn’t smell either, as long as you empty it regularly. Normally, composting toilets—or more accurately, dehydrating toilets—collect pee in a container that you then have to dump overboard, which, in case you’re wondering, is safe because it’s inert. In our case, after much debate, we decide to attach a hose to the diverter and plumb it directly into the waste hose below the sink, and out it goes with an electric pump. So now, we push a button to flush the pee directly overboard, along with a splash of fresh water we recycle from rinse water in the galley. What a great system! Well, except that sometimes water or pee spills over into the coffee-chafe-covered poop making it soggy. 😦 Will has since modified the diverter and extended the hose so it can hold more liquid before being pumped overboard.

We also installed a salt water foot pump for the galley sink for a first rinse of dishes. This hose connects to the through-hull that used to serve the head. This will save us a lot of fresh water and the “free” saltwater allow for generous rinsing of our cook- and place-ware.

Life is an experiment.

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It’s April 15 and time to leave our winter slip at DiMillo’s and motor a mile across Portland Harbor to a temporary mooring at Spring Point in South Portland where we planned to leave the boat while we were gone for a few weeks out west. The mooring ball is due to go in a few days later, so we head to Spring Point Marina in South Portland for a couple days. We’d removed the shrink wrap a week earlier, retrieved the dinghy from the house, and changed the oil in preparation for the short trip across the harbor. After a winter of sitting idle, the engine fires up on the second try so we’re pleased and set off. Fifteen minutes later, a loud alarm sounds. Having just changed the oil, our minds immediately go to the oil pressure alarm, until smoke starts billowing out of the engine compartment. The sails aren’t bent on, so stopping the engine in the middle of the harbor doesn’t seem wise. The thought occurs to snag a mooring ball or hail a passing motor boat, but Will is busy trying to see what’s wrong and the boat hook is still stowed below. Instead, we push on for another ten minutes until we reach the dock, smoke pouring from the engine, neither one of us able to imagine what the cause might be.

Will reaches out to our friendly mechanic Alec whom we met in Belfast and has been beyond helpful to us as we continue to learn about our diesel engine. His first question is, “Did you open the raw water sea cock?” “SHIT!” we both utter out loud when we realize that we’d made a major, rookie blunder. The all-important sea cock supplies sea water to the engine to help cool it while it’s running, along with fresh water coolant. No sea water and the engine overheats in a hurry, along with burning out the impeller, the little rubber gadget that circulates water through the engine, and melting the plastic 60-degree exhaust. OUCH! That is a painful learning experience that we will never repeat. The good news is that in the process, we learn how to replace the impeller, inspect and clean the heat exchanger, and flush the hoses of impeller debris, of which there was plenty.

All these items back to square one and the sea cock now in the open position, we ready ourselves to motor ten minutes from the dock to the now-in-place mooring to leave the boat while we’re away on the West Coast. And wouldn’t you know it, the alarm goes on again, despite the care we had just given our poor engine, but we leave the next day and there’s no time to diagnose it. Upon our return, we run the engine a third time to haul the boat so we can clean the bottom and replace the zincs, and the alarm sounds again! The marina staff brings the boat back to our slip.

We add coolant, remove and test the thermostat, which is functioning as it should, and discover a broken seal on the radiator cap. We give it one more test, revving it up in reverse at the dock and using our new laser heat gun to test the temperature throughout the engine. No overheating! Next day we take it out circling close to the marina for 30 minutes and still no overheating.

We’re feeling both relieved and emboldened by our newfound understanding of our cooling system and decide to take on the long overdue task of flushing the icky brown-green coolant and replacing it with the recommended extended life red stuff. Two days and five flushes later, we are savvy and quick at this procedure, our coolant is now a rosy red, and both we and our engine are calm, cool, and collected. The experiential learning continues!

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We’re getting ready to move onto the boat and decide to install our bimini and dodger. The bimini had eluded us when we bought the boat so we never used it. This year we decide to try it again and realize the deck fittings that the thing attaches to were installed backwards such that there was no way it could attach. We reverse the fittings and voila, the bimini now slips directly into the slots as it should.

We move on to a minor repair of the cracked plastic windows on the dodger and install it, leaving two of the hooks detached so the repair can dry. That night, there are 35 mph winds. Next morning, we come back to the boat to a shredded dodger and a sinking feeling. We’re already planning on buying new sails later in the season and found a one man shop in Boothbay who still measures sails in the old-school way by stretching them out on the floor and with a block and tackle. We weren’t planning on a new dodger too, but I guess it aged out and needed replacing.

We race to find someone to get started on it before we leave for the west coast only to find the businesses are too busy or they quote outrageously high, though we find another guy who agrees to do it for almost half, but it won’t be ready until mid- to late-June. We get a call in early June saying he’s started making the dodger but is encountering issues because the old once didn’t quite fit the frame, so he unexpectedly abandons the project in the middle, refunding our deposit and giving us his work on the almost finished roof. We scramble and by stroke of luck find an 80-year-old guy who agrees to pick up the job in the middle. Amazingly he had the time and was up for the challenge. Now that’s our kind of guy! We pick up the dodger any day now and will install the snaps ourselves to make sure it fits. And the adventure continues!

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Next on the list is replacing our rusty, plastic-coated, wire lifelines with Dyneema, a braided rope made of fibers that are stronger than steel, making it an excellent choice for this application. We had bought the stuff on sale last year and had it in our “project box,” but first we had to learn a Brummel splice and buy the proper Swedish fids. Amazingly, when we were in Italy, out of the blue my brother Tyler said one day, “Want to learn a Brummel splice?” “We sure do!” So he taught us the basics and we got to practice a few splices on some line he had laying around.

However, as we find out, doing a single splice is significantly easier than figuring out how to turn pieces of Dyneema into lifelines! This project turns out to be far more challenging than we imagine as we puzzle through how to attach the lines to the stanchions when you need two ends to do a splice, making them the right length given shrinkage, and finding the right hardware for tensioning the lines. After much discussion and many YouTube videos and days of experimentation later, we’re now pretty proficient at the lock splice and bury, and we’ve exercised our hands-on spatial geometric reasoning to create eight beautiful new lifelines and cross-bracing to stabilize our davits! Through this process, we’ve learned a lot about how differently we approach such projects and the importance of hands-on experiential learning.

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And if all that wasn’t enough, one night, we return to the boat to the sound of the CO alarm. Mystified, we open the hatches and wait for the alarm to turn off. On the next night sleeping aboard the boat, we’re suddenly awakened by the alarm again. Now we’re getting nervous as we know carbon monoxide is an invisible killer, thus the alarm. But we’re not burning any fuel so can’t imagine what it could be. We open the hatches and sleep with extra blankets. This happens several more times until we learn that charging our lead acid batteries generates hydrogen gas, which the CO monitor registers along with CO. Common knowledge? Not for us, but now we know and bring the alarm in our cabin instead of right over the batteries where the hydrogen likely won’t reach. Experiential learning strikes again!

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All this is to say that along with significant planning, list-making, and doing on both our parts, there’s been plenty of experiential learning along the way—about our boat, about our process, about each other, and about ourselves. We’ve appreciated all of it as we launch ourselves into our new season aboard sv NIRVANA for another summer of sailing and adventure, the outcome of which is as yet unknown!

THE TRIP OF GENEROSITY: S2:E5

May 18, 2022

While I fill in for our errant scribe, it is more than filling in because I am so happy to be writing about our house-sitting stays, mostly at our friend Liberty’s house, and our west coast trip. (Details and photos of that trip below.)

The planning Tash and I did in preparation to spend 17 days away—with most every detail of that trip, including its duration—was totally guessed at. We vaguely needed to be back by mid-May to complete the commissioning of our intergalactic vessel, and we vaguely thought about the Seattle/Santa Cruz split, but we also just identified the least expensive days of the week to arrange airfare and off we went.

Prior to traveling to the west coast, we were house-hopping—or as Tasha liked to say “floating on land”—as she was not thrilled about living on a non-sailing sailboat. We had originally planned to winter (mid-October to mid-April) on our boat at DiMillo’s marina in Portland but only did that for 1.5 months because Tasha’s generous 0.5 brother Tyler offered us his boat to live on in Sicily—which we jumped at before he finished the sentence because we both love Italia. Once back, we both recognized our belief that boat life is great but that sailboats are meant to be sailed, and our one passage to Siracusa was not enough. Further, there would be no pre-spring passages once back in still-chilly Portland, and so the piecing together of places to stay until at least the warmth of mid-May was upon us.

Generous couple Simon and Jill, Tasha’s son and daughter-in-law, were still away on their Ski-RV grand tour in the Rockies, so we gratefully luxuriated in their manse on Ocean Avenue in Portland for 3 weeks. This spacious resort was complete with a stand-alone sauna and a home theater. Completely true to form, we basically lived in front of the wood stove adjacent to the wall of glass facing the East 40 that they call a backyard.

We were then to go to Savannah to meet up with my mom and brother, but the former had a stroke and the latter just happened to be calling right as she was fading, so a dynamic helicopter ride ensued instead of a ride in a much slower vehicle. Mom, who is 95, is doing well and is also lucky in that the stroke seems to be mostly just making it hard for her to regain use of her right hand. This might be a blessing in that I hope she’ll quit driving altogether (you still reading this, ma?). So I went south alone, since it was to the hospital, and Tasha stayed at her own home that week, thanks to the generosity of her cousin Joanna, who is renting it but was away that week. The universe just keeps providing.

Transitions take time for Tasha, and we were not thrilled with the upcoming prospects of a week here and a week there for another 9 weeks. Her good friend Liberty was off with Roameo (no typo, this is her homemade converted van) in the southwest. After our own heart, she likes to wander and very possibly said she might be out exploring all winter. A few calls and ground rules later, we had ourselves a cozy place to stay in SoPo (South Portland) for nearly 7 weeks!

I first met Liberty at Dance a year ago, though I hardly knew her when she next appeared. She was out for a walk and stopped by Tasha’s house in SoPo when I was taping together a huge sheet of shrink-wrap, to be a boat cover, in the driveway. A few words later and she was right there with me wrangling plastic and huge rolls of tape as if this was the most fun one could have on a beautiful day.

We also spent a few enjoyable days with Liberty and Roameo at the Swan’s Island Music Festival last summer. It was so great to be out in the hinter lands together, pitching in with the locals helping put on the cooking portion of the event by volunteering in the kitchen. Roameo was a fortuitous addition as Swan’s is bigger than it looks on a map and having a vehicle was the ideal way to get to the venue, the after-parties, and other sights.

One house rule of Liberty’s proved serendipitous for us: no meat or fish in the house. Why not, we said, as we had toyed with the idea of eating healthier before. Tasha introduced me to the movies Food Inc. and Food Choices, and I was instantly sold on giving up these and other “factory” foods. Not only was the food over the next 6 weeks nutritious and delicious, but even when buying better produce, our groceries are less expensive. Thank you, thank you, generous Liberty!

It was now April 15 and time to move Nirvana out of our slip at DiMillo’s marina. Though we had sold our mooring off Spring Point last year, we had been in touch with the next (and next!) owner of it and asked permission to moor there until we got back from our West Coast trip. This was largely because we knew the ease with which we could row ashore there and safely leave our dinghy on the beach, and because very few people in Maine put their boats in before Memorial Day anyway. Not only did the owner say yes but we got Tom Simpson, the old salt mooring diver and inspector, to get “our” ball in the water early enough that we could tie up to it before we left.

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First stop on our west coast jaunt was Seattle, which was great. We stayed with Tasha’s stepmom, Sandy, mom to Tasha’s brothers Tyler, owner of the boat we stayed on in Sicily and Jason. Generous Sandy was like a college roommate and shared her house with us with such ease. Tasha credits Sandy with giving her her aesthetic eye, and Sandy’s living room addition was full of the Pacific Northwest wood detailing that make Seattle’s modest houses so gorgeous. Tasha has a fair number of Sandy recipes she’s shared with me, and I can see why she’s saved them. Sandy took us to a “moveable feast” art show dispersed through several neighborhoods and to the family cabin on Puget sound, built by hand by Sandy’s father in the 30s. She also generously gave us a car to use to see Seattle and the farm…

Pike Place Market

Seattle Center

The Family Cabin on Puget Sound

Local Roots Farm is brother Jason and Siri’s, a thinking person’s organic spread on 80 acres just 30 minutes from Seattle but in a lush valley such that it feels a world apart. We had several lovely occasions to spend time with the—yes, you guessed it—generous couple and their two bright-eyed kids,10-year-old Felix and 8-year-old Bea. We toured the farm and ate fresh rapini that we’d snap off as we walked; I learned to fish on the banks of the Snoqualmie River with Felix; we heard the ongoing education they received from working the earth the right way; we spent an afternoon at a tulip festival and a riverside seafood shack; and, of course, Tasha had the kids under her spell and learning to use a digital camera. Thanks S+J for the wonderful meals and jamming into the school night with chords that were mostly right and instrument players who were mostly just playing for fun.

The Farm Family

Tulip Festival in Mount Vernon

We could have spent more time in Port Townsend, Washington, a lovely sailing village with enough wooden boats to make you think you were still in Maine . . . except for those ginormous mountains looming overhead across the water. As it was, we got to see Mary, one of Tasha’s college roommates, and her lovely cottage and her love, the Recovery Cafe, a safe place and community for any who are in recovery. We could have joined the T-bird racers in the evening, but the nip in the air had us yearning for the lovely country apartment Tasha had arranged for us.

Whirl-wind still whirring, we jetted down to Santa Cruz which I didn’t realize on the outskirts of Silicon Valley. Real estate is nearing tulip-mania prices, but our hosts, generous Jeanine and Eric (eh-reek, if you speak French) have their heads screwed on right, see things for what they are, and get out in nature plenty. Thanks to another car loaner and e-bikes, we managed to get out and enjoy the rugged California coast. I’ll never forget the seals meandering around the local marina slips, or the sea otters playing around right below our observation platform at Moss Landing.

Moss Landing and Santa Cruz

Jeanine and Eric also allowed us to stay at their Round House getaway in more rural Corralitos. A respite from all the visiting we had done, we slowed down (except for our dancing!) and enjoyed the local, more Mexican flavors del dia. Perched up high on a hill, and even higher on their 3rd-level deck, we were almost on par with the circling birds of prey—their lack of wing flapping in contrast with the huge swirling, dancing Eucalyptus trees was a mesmerizing sight.

We got to see long-no-see friend Amos, with whom I played soccer at Virginia, and caught up a tiny bit and of course, acknowledged there would be plenty more in the future as we only scratched the surface of things, like his running with the bulls (…”they pass by your throng in 5 seconds; not really a ‘run with’…”) in Pamplona.

It’s the landscape that imprinted itself on me during this trip. The built-up areas are what they are, and Seattle is booming with grace, but it is the natural grand scale that hit me, so different from the intimate tree-boughed spaces we have in the east. With Redwoods tripling the height of our (still tall at 80′) oaks and maples, a walk in the western woods is often monumental in scale, and even in the densest of forests, vistas can be quite far. The mountains are really big and in-your-face, not a distant, blue-hazed affair like the Blue Ridge Mountains of the Appalachias. It feels like the entire northern California coast is unbuilt, with one national or state park after another making Route 1 on the coast a continuous open air, sage brushed ranch that rolls over the modest unpreposing highway and suddenly over a cliff to crunch into craggy rocks and the sea.

Wet-suited, cold-water surfers dot some of these craggy rock “beach” areas, and you realize the surfers tempt those rocks because the surf comes in just the right way in only certain places. While of course there are big population centers, I think now of the vast amounts of open space and why the outdoorsy types flock there.

I am reminded of Snow Falling on Cedars by David Guterson and how the Pacific Northwest landscape was such a big character in the book: to write about the area without invoking the feeling of the land would be just another mystery novel.

I also particularly liked the changeable weather, rather than the oft-mentioned warmth of the weather. Moisture in the fog (despite the ongoing drought, still growing plenty of things), temperature drops, the fresh breezes, the need for layered clothing. Much more to like than what I experienced in LA.

I don’t know what else Tasha and I might say about it—it will develop in us over time as we enjoy the prospect of going back…

CASCADE II S2:E5

Feb 7, 2022

Last we wrote we were leaving Syracuse and heading back to MDR (Marina di Ragusa). We had a delightful sail for seven of the ten hours, anchored overnight, and then motored the rest of the way with the wind on the nose. It was glorious weather and we enjoyed being outside in the sunshine in January, albeit with gloves.

Since our return, we have been dropping into a more relaxed yet energized mode consisting of reading, walking, dancing, writing, and adventuring.

In Syracuse, we picked up a couple of books about Sicily, one the Vittorini book we learned about in the library, Conversations in Sicily, and the other a novel about one of the wealthiest families in Sicily, The Florios of Sicily. Both were engaging and gave us a better sense of the history of Sicily and its people. While we missed the illusions to fascism which had the book banned, Vittorini’s book was a very poetic take on working-class Sicily in the 30’s. The other was a more mercenary tale of the spice trade of Palermo through the centuries, with power and revenge at the center, a less appealing theme to us. Will and I love to read out loud to each other so that way we get to share the books in the moment.

We have been taking long walks along the beach and waterfront, which feels great. The promenade is often jammed with people, especially on the weekends in nice weather. There are couples, often smartly dressed or in jogging suits, families with kids on tiny bikes, and older folks walking arm in arm. For the most part, these are not power walkers but rather people out walking at a slow pace enjoying the sunshine. There are joggers as well, just as in America, but the passeggiata is an Italian specialty to be savored.

One day shortly after we returned, I was feeling the deep need to dance, so we brought my speaker down to the beach, put on one of my Spotify playlists, and danced. With the ocean view, breaking waves, warm sunshine, and sand on our feet, it felt great to move in such an expansive way after spending so much time in the more confined space of the boat and marina.

The next time, we posted our dance on the MDR Liveaboards Facebook page, and a German woman from the marina showed up. It turns out she is a dance therapist and has done conscious movement for years, so we had a lot in common. Next thing you know, we spent a couple of hours over a cappuccino talking about dance therapy, which was very inspiring for me. The next time we danced, a British woman came whom we’d met earlier, along with our Senegalese friend who is the chef at the restaurant on the beach where we dance. What a joyous communion of souls in motion! We’ve been dancing consistently twice a week now and does it ever feel great!

Click here to see a couple of videos taken by our surfer friend:

Dancing on the beach

Dancing with our Senegalese friend (Instagram)

In addition, Will finally found some people to play soccer with—a man and his son and his son’s friend. They played kids against adults and were fairly evenly matched. Not bad for a former pro at age 65!

Inspired by dance, my new German friend, and my ongoing pursuit of how to bring embodiment into daily life in a more conscious way, I have been doing some writing about such things. As a certified UZAZU facilitator, I’m re-energizing myself around how to support people in reconnecting with their authentic selves through their bodies. Will too has been spending some time writing his ideas about humanity, nature, and being—the acceptance of an ever-changing nature as the core experience of all beings.

One day we biked 7 kilometers along the coast to Donnafugata, a small beach town that was largely devoid of people, it being January. Looking for a restaurant, we encountered a friendly man named Salvo (a common name in Italy, short for Salvatore), who recommended a restaurant on the beach and walked with us there to make sure we found it. After twenty minutes of talking with him in Italian, we said, why don’t you join us, so he did! We had a fabulous meal of somewhat upscale, creative Italian fare, something we hadn’t seen before. Next thing you know, he’s offering to bring us some of his caponata di peperoni, a different take on the standard dish with eggplant. The next day, he showed up at the marina, dish in hand, and we spent some more time talking on the boat. Needless to say, we’ve found the people in Sicily to be amazingly friendly.

Another day we took the bus to Ragusa Ibla, the old hilltop city about 30 minutes from MDR. We walked and walked and walked up winding streets and stairs between ancient buildings until we got to the new city and turned right around and walked all the way down again. Eventually, we came upon a 18th century cathedral, which is always such a spectacle—so ornate. As usual, the town was largely devoid of people, it being January and lunchtime, when everyone goes home and the shops are all closed—very strange indeed but it’s the Italian way. After all that walking, we luckily found an open restaurant and ate a nice meal, then made our way back to the bus. It was a pleasant day away from the marina for a change of scenery.

We also rented a car and went for the day with Bill and Nancy to Villa Romana del Casale in Piazza Armerina, about a two-hour drive from MDR. This archeological site is an old Roman governor’s hunting lodge from the 4th century, which was covered in mud until the 1970s. When it was unearthed, they discovered room after room of all manner of amazing mosaics. Completed over two centuries, the place is a feat of human artistry and imagination. We especially appreciated some of their attempts at 3-dimensionality and the representation of shadow and underwater bodies, all using tiny tiles.

After a long day of driving, including a swing by a house that a friend is interested in buying and lunch in Piazza Armerina where narrow, steep, one-way streets with blockades nearly had us trapped, Will and I decided to take advantage of the car and drive to the nearby city of Scicli about 25 minutes up the coast. It was different being out at night in a city that people actually live in, so instead of the feeling of a ghost town that we often have encountered during the day, there were plenty of people around. We asked an older woman climbing the stairs with her evening shopping where a good place to eat was, and she turned right around and escorted us two blocks to a nuovo Siciliano place where we had the chef’s version of caponata and grilled octopus served on a bed of melted cheese. We ended the evening with a box of 14 mini cannoli of different flavors, ohmy!

As with most opportunities, our trip to Sicily has been a wonderful slice of life that has come with various ups and downs, adventures and routine, activity and reflection, vitality and sickness. The abundance of fresh, inexpensive food has been especially delightful. And it’s been great to spend time with my Dad and Nancy, and to be around so many sailors, albeit tethered to a dock.

And in a couple days we fly back to Portland, where February snows and temperatures await us. We hope the weather isn’t too much of a shock to our systems!

Tasha & Will